to love unconditionally

[f U z ! o N]

one thing i have learned over the almost 9 months with my girlfriend is unconditional love and learning it's not all about me. by loving as God loves us we can make the best of our relationship. i've learned to look past problems and arguments and to love unconditionally as God loves me. she is so beautiful and i'd give her the world if i could and God has taught me HEY! love her as I love you!

one other thing i've learned is between 2 people who care about each other its not about wanting things its about giving that person what they need! hence love language. we should be giving each other what THEY need not what we want. in turn, they should give us what we need. it will work out to a perfect balance. when we start demanding things or wanting things the relationship can go sour. sure, if your not feeling love because of a love language problem, tell them! but don't demand things to be done because if they are doing them because they feel like they have too that's not unconditional love. when someone does something out of their heart, thats love.

in all these things i have learned, God has helped me strengthen my relationship with the greatest girl i have ever laid eyes on!

all i can say is thanks God for the lessons you teach me!

sorry for the long post, just thought i would share some things i've learned.

 

[puregrl]

good ideas and very sweet

 

[MrsSeptemberPenguin]

Great post, thanks for the reminder!

 

[f U z ! o N]

yeah my biggest problem would be my physical touch love language. since my girlfriend is not a touchy person i will ground this love language. i will try my hardest to barely give physical touch, only enough to make her happy. a big sacrifice i know, but trust me for this girl its worth it. and to me, thats giving her what she needs while ignoring what i need.