Up until recently, I had tithed for the past 20+ years.
LAtely I have not been "tithing" because some folks here
convinced me that it MIGHT not be a good thing to do.
(went through the same thing with tongues a few years
back too. Stopped praying in tongues because of what
people here said )
I'll put in my 2 pence worth in a minute. But this saddens me. Don't worry about what anyone on here says, if you believe before God that it's right for you to tithe, then you do it. Similarly with tongues - it's your relationship with God that's important, not what anyone on here says. If speaking in tongues is how you praise God/pray/get closer to him; go for it. I wish I could; I'm sure it is a very beautiful, intimate way to worship the Lord. And I'm sure you wouldn't want to miss out on that just because of a few people on an internet forum.
Right, tithing.
In the OT the tithe was 10% of their produce - crops, oil, wine and so on. The only place in the OT I see money mentioned is if they had such a great harvest or the temple/appointed place was so far away that they could not carry their 10% to it. Then they could exchange it for money. When they got there, they would buy food with the money that had come from the sale of their 10%. But the outcome was the same - they would then eat the food, in thanksgiving to God, not forgetting the priests, who had no allotments, and the poor.
Tithing is not mentioned as a practice in the early church, in fact the believers sold all they had, lived in a community and gave the money to the poor. Jesus did not instruct his disciples to tithe, oir carry on tithing, after his resurrection, and Paul says that God loves a cheerful giver.
Practically speaking, for me anyway, what does it mean to tithe? As there are no guidelines laid down in the NT and we cannot tithe as stated in the OT - there is no temple; how do we do it?
Give 10% of our money? Yes, that's a good starting point, but it's not compulsory; some may give only 5%, others 7.5%, others 20%. And where to we give it? To the church? A Christian charity? Missions? All these things are from and for God and need money.
What about time, service, goods etc? Is that as well as or instead of?
Personally I give some money to my church and some to Christian charities. It probably is about 10% altogether, though only part of that is for the church. But I sometimes buy tea, biscuits, flowers etc and rarely claim the money back.
I also make greetings cards, some of which I give to the church for use or to sell and make money. I never claim expenses. I have sent huindreds of pounds buying puppets and visual aids which I use in my services to proclaim the gospel. I've given some away too. I help with fundraising for the church when I can.
Some people help with decorating the church, baking cakes, donating items, gardening and so on. I would guess that most do this voluntarily.
I'm not saying this to show off, justify my giving, or whatever. I write it only to show that imo there are many ways in which we can give to God's work. And no one should feel, or be made to feel, guilty if it's not 10% because there is no lawe in the NT that it has to be.