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Tithing. What do I really do with my 10%?

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If I don't go to church. Who gets my 10%?
"But if that place is too distant and you have been blessed by the Lord your God and cannot carry your tithe (because the place where the Lord will choose to put his Name is so far away), 25 then exchangeg your tithe for silver, and take the silver with you and go to the place the Lord your God will choose. 26 Use the silver to buy whatever you like: cattle, sheep, wine or other fermented drink,h or anything you wish. Then you and your household shall eat there in the presence of the Lord your God and rejoice.i 27 "
So should I just do this? Note: This is for future references since I don't really have a job.
Thank you for your time, and god bless.
 

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If I don't go to church. Who gets my 10%?
"But if that place is too distant and you have been blessed by the Lord your God and cannot carry your tithe (because the place where the Lord will choose to put his Name is so far away), 25 then exchangeg your tithe for silver, and take the silver with you and go to the place the Lord your God will choose. 26 Use the silver to buy whatever you like: cattle, sheep, wine or other fermented drink,h or anything you wish. Then you and your household shall eat there in the presence of the Lord your God and rejoice.i 27 "
So should I just do this? Note: This is for future references since I don't really have a job.
Thank you for your time, and god bless.
Do you listen to or watch Christian radio or TV? Those ministries that you watch/listen to most, and that you believe you get a spiritual benefit from should be where you do your giving since they are meeting your spiritual need.

What you have read is a principle in an age that there was no radio or TV. So you take that principle into this age and give to where you get fed spiritually.

I would check the ministry out to ensure they are truly doing God's work and not just "fleecing the flock" as there are quite a few doing just that.
 
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Do you listen to or watch Christian radio or TV? Those ministries that you watch/listen to most, and that you believe you get a spiritual benefit from should be where you do your giving since they are meeting your spiritual need.

What you have read is a principle in an age that there was no radio or TV. So you take that principle into this age and give to where you get fed spiritually.

I would check the ministry out to ensure they are truly doing God's work and not just "fleecing the flock" as there are quite a few doing just that.

I agree with ebedmelech. You can give it to any Christian ministry that is doing God's work.
 
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If I don't go to church. Who gets my 10%?
"But if that place is too distant and you have been blessed by the Lord your God and cannot carry your tithe (because the place where the Lord will choose to put his Name is so far away), 25 then exchangeg your tithe for silver, and take the silver with you and go to the place the Lord your God will choose. 26 Use the silver to buy whatever you like: cattle, sheep, wine or other fermented drink,h or anything you wish. Then you and your household shall eat there in the presence of the Lord your God and rejoice.i 27 "
So should I just do this? Note: This is for future references since I don't really have a job.
Thank you for your time, and god bless.

It's not about giving a rigid 10% of income; but of supporting the Christian community and of sharing of what you have that those who have less can benefit. It is not a legalistic offering, but a communal sharing for the sake of the Body in our work together as the Church in the world.

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LilliumStar, those who attend AND those who DON'T attend organized, religious institutions (which includes myself) should be handing over the primary portion of their giving to meet the needs of fellow believers, first and foremost after they see to the needs of their own family.

I've challenged many pro-required-tithing camp members for the better part of 30 years to show me where the tithe ever had anything to do with the wages of wage earners, and not one has been able to point out even one verse anywhere in scripture proving such a notion without falling back upon the even weaker cases of Abraham and Jacob to support that false teaching.

Giving is indeed a biblical principle, but anyone allowing others to rob him or her of their freedom with the legalistic demands of 1/10th have given in to falsehoods that do nothing but enslave.

False claims of blessings originating from obedience to the Law do not impress me in the least, nor do they elicit fear in my bones for refusing to cling to the very thing that is death to its followers.

One of my music videos says it well:

Amazing Grace - YouTube

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It's not about giving a rigid 10% of income; but of supporting the Christian community and of sharing of what you have that those who have less can benefit. It is not a legalistic offering, but a communal sharing for the sake of the Body in our work together as the Church in the world.

-CryptoLutheran

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Where to give .. I say give to someone who can't pay a bill.
That's what I did this month. A widow got a major unforeseen bill that she wasn't going to be able to pay. I couldn't have covered all of it, but I did help her in a significant way with my offering.
 
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2 Corinthians 9:7 Each one must give as he has decided in his heart, not reluctantly or under compulsion, for God loves a cheerful giver.

Tithing is not a requirement, but each should give as God leads them out of the joy of their heart.

Let's go a bit further. Paul...the apostle to the Gentiles...gives us absolutely no indication that tithing has anything to do with this dispensation of grace. Let's try not to dredge up another commandment from the dispensation of law. We're two millenia away. The words "tithe," "tithes," and "tithing" aren't even found in the books authored by Paul (Romans through Philemon). Simply reckon everything you have is the Lord's and keep back only that which you feel you need.
 
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LilliumStar said:
If I don't go to church. Who gets my 10%?
"But if that place is too distant and you have been blessed by the Lord your God and cannot carry your tithe (because the place where the Lord will choose to put his Name is so far away), 25 then exchangeg your tithe for silver, and take the silver with you and go to the place the Lord your God will choose. 26 Use the silver to buy whatever you like: cattle, sheep, wine or other fermented drink,h or anything you wish. Then you and your household shall eat there in the presence of the Lord your God and rejoice.i 27 "
So should I just do this? Note: This is for future references since I don't really have a job.
Thank you for your time, and god bless.

Your missing another 0 at the end of %10...

:)

Give your money to whose name is on it,
or give it to the poor.
Peace.
 
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Giving is indeed a biblical principle, but anyone allowing others to rob him or her of their freedom with the legalistic demands of 1/10th have given in to falsehoods that do nothing but enslave.

False claims of blessings originating from obedience to the Law do not impress me in the least, nor do they elicit fear in my bones for refusing to cling to the very thing that is death to its followers.

I respectfully disagree with your statement here. I have heard many people that have found freedom in giving a tithe. This freedom has brought happiness and a desire to give even more. Furthermore, there is biblical support for this: that all things belong to God and tithing is to remind us of that fact and that He entrusts us to use what we have wisely.

When we consecrate part of our wealth to our Lord, you can believe that there is a blessing that follows. The principle can been seen throughout the Bible, even from Cain and Abel. Abel brought the first-fruits and God was pleased. Cain did not. His heart did not have the right attitude. As Jesus says (Luke 11:42, Matthew 23:23), the more important matters are faithfulness, justice and love but both are good.

If you don't support tithing, that's your choice but please understand that not everyone who gives their first-fruits (being a tenth) is 'enslaved', under demands or in fear. These give joyfully to the Lord and make no requirement of others.
 
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... The words "tithe," "tithes," and "tithing" aren't even found in the books authored by Paul (Romans through Philemon). Simply reckon everything you have is the Lord's and keep back only that which you feel you need.

Actually, Paul talks about a tenth (that is a tithe) in Hebrews 7. In this, Paul explains that Christ has established the perfect, eternal priesthood (replacing the Levitical priesthood with Himself). The tithe has been transferred back to Christ and we give our tenth to Him by giving to His Church.
 
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Actually, Paul talks about a tenth (that is a tithe) in Hebrews 7. In this, Paul explains that Christ has established the perfect, eternal priesthood (replacing the Levitical priesthood with Himself). The tithe has been transferred back to Christ and we give our tenth to Him by giving to His Church.
Ah, but Hebrews was not written by Paul. Verse 3 of chapter 2 makes this very clear. Paul received his gospel directly from the risen Lord; it was not confirmed by them that heard Him before the cross.

Also, compare 12:8 with Romans 8:14. Hebrews12 sounds very much like Deuteronomy 28 and Leviticus 26.
 
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Ah, but Hebrews was not written by Paul. Verse 3 of chapter 2 makes this very clear. Paul received his gospel directly from the risen Lord; it was not confirmed by them that heard Him before the cross.

Also, compare 12:8 with Romans 8:14. Hebrews12 sounds very much like Deuteronomy 28 and Leviticus 26.

Good point - the letter is anonymous. However, there are reasons to suggest that it was written by Paul. For example, the part about Timothy in 12:23. I don't think Hebrews 2:3 proves anything conclusively about the authorship.

I compared 12:8 and Romans 8:14. If you include 12:7 "...God is treating you as sons", that sounds similar to "those who are led by the Spirit of God are sons of God".

In any case, whoever wrote Hebrews, I think the message still stands.
 
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Good point - the letter is anonymous. However, there are reasons to suggest that it was written by Paul. For example, the part about Timothy in 12:23. I don't think Hebrews 2:3 proves anything conclusively about the authorship.

I compared 12:8 and Romans 8:14. If you include 12:7 "...God is treating you as sons", that sounds similar to "those who are led by the Spirit of God are sons of God".

In any case, whoever wrote Hebrews, I think the message still stands.
And I believe that 2:3 proves...conclusively...that Paul could not have been the human instrument for the book of Hebrews.

So, we'll leave it at that.
 
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I respectfully disagree with your statement here. I have heard many people that have found freedom in giving a tithe. This freedom has brought happiness and a desire to give even more.

Are you saying you think they found freedom in observing the Law? Is that what THEY said, or are you assuming that on your own?

Furthermore, there is biblical support for this: that all things belong to God and tithing is to remind us of that fact and that He entrusts us to use what we have wisely.
Can you show me from the scriptures where tithing is said to be a tool of demonstration for showing it all belongs to God, and to use what we have wisely? From what I've read, the tithe was for the meeting of needs for five main groups; Levites, priests, orphans, widows and strangers in the land.

Where did any of the apostles intimate the continuance of the tithe to demonstrate the things you listed? I'd really like to see it if you wouldn't mind showing it to us all.

When we consecrate part of our wealth to our Lord, you can believe that there is a blessing that follows.
How does that have anything to do with the tithe? No wage earner in OT times were required to tithe to the Levites, only those who possessed producing fields, orchards, vineyards, flocks and/or herds.

What I can't figure out is the bridge you appear to be trying to build between a concept and what later became a part of the Law. Building upon one aspect of the Law makes one guilty of it all.

I fully understand the emotional appeals you're making...appeals that some assume to be spiritual, but in the end it robs people of their freedom in Christ Jesus.

The principle can been seen throughout the Bible, even from Cain and Abel. Abel brought the first-fruits and God was pleased. Cain did not. His heart did not have the right attitude. As Jesus says (Luke 11:42, Matthew 23:23), the more important matters are faithfulness, justice and love but both are good.
Where the tithe was concerned, Jesus was addressing a people who were still under the Law, so I still don't see the connection.

If you don't support tithing, that's your choice but please understand that not everyone who gives their first-fruits (being a tenth) is 'enslaved', under demands or in fear. These give joyfully to the Lord and make no requirement of others.
I understand that point. The main point I was making is that tithe teachings are based upon a false premise, and that premise being that tithing is pleasing to the Lord. Handing the primary, largest portion of one's giving to institutionalized religion, in most cases, is a robbery of God when the majority of what's given is absorbed by the institution before meeting the needs of fellow believers.

No amount of experience in what one may assume is "blessing" from God, while ignoring the needs of others, and instead supporting something from which the members directly benefit, will never be shown to have originated from the NT scriptures in relation to God's priorities in giving.

Warm fuzzies are not a barometer for God's acceptance of one's actions. He allows professing believers to practice disobedience, and to reap their earthly rewards for such. To assume the Lord winks at such speaks more clearly of spiritual blindness than it does to being a giant among believers.

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Actually, Paul talks about a tenth (that is a tithe) in Hebrews 7. In this, Paul explains that Christ has established the perfect, eternal priesthood (replacing the Levitical priesthood with Himself). The tithe has been transferred back to Christ and we give our tenth to Him by giving to His Church.

Can you quote those verses and expound upon them, please?

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If tithing existed before Old Testament Law, I can't see any reason why it shouldn't exist now.

Where did it exist before the Law?

The best solution for the OP would be to go to church and get connected with other Christians. Are you not physically able to go?

Huh? (scratching head)

BTW
 
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