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There's no cure I've found that works for lonliness except to not be alone. It hurts so much...
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JacobsDream
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Thats where God comes, I know you've probably know Him for a while and still feel thesame way, but yes, He can fix lonliness too.
If you remind yourself that He is your father and is able and willing of yoru best interest, you are hopefull and that deals with lonliness.
Secondly, don't count the years and months "I've been lonley for x time" or "I'll probably be lonely for x more time". Such will only keep your spirits down.
Father, open his eyes to see and recieve your love that no one can offer. Let him know that you know the desires of his heart and care for her and that by faith and patience, he will overcome to the glor of your name.
If you remind yourself that He is your father and is able and willing of yoru best interest, you are hopefull and that deals with lonliness.
Secondly, don't count the years and months "I've been lonley for x time" or "I'll probably be lonely for x more time". Such will only keep your spirits down.
Father, open his eyes to see and recieve your love that no one can offer. Let him know that you know the desires of his heart and care for her and that by faith and patience, he will overcome to the glor of your name.
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Check the gender icon. I'm a guy.JacobsDream said:
Head knowledge of God's sovereignty in my life isn't helping me. I know He is sovereign and has my best interests at heart, but that is not helping my lonliness.
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Dear Almighty, I lift up our beloved brother in prayers to You in the name of our loving and caring Saviour Jesus Christ. Lord, You see that our dear brother is hurting and I know that You have his best interest in mind. I ask You to bless him with strength and comfort as well as good friendships in all walks of life. I also pray that You will bless our brother with that special one that You have prepared for him when the time is right. Thank You Lord for listening to this prayer!
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Father God, Your Word says it isn't good for us to be alone, we can know that Your heart is for us and I ask You to send friends to my sister. I pray that You would let those at her church reach out to her that she might have some close friends who love You. Please minister to her hurting heart LORD, give her Your comfort, hope and peace. Thank You LORD for never leaving us, ever, in Jesus' name, amen.
in Him, Leslie
in Him, Leslie
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Norma_Jean said:
Praying for you Norma_Jean
There is a cure for Lonliness. Did you know that god is with you when you are down.
Lord i pray for Norma_jean lord. Lord i pray that you will take the lonlines away lord and that you will show your love and your presence lord. Lord cover her with your loving arms lord. Surround her with joy peace and happiness lord. In your mighty name I pray amen
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JacobsDream
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Norma_Jean said:
My applogies, I've fixed my post.
Now, you have to be specific. I could easily say that I myself am lonely because I don't have a girlfriend. I hope you see where I'm comming from, so tell us, loneliness, explain.
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Im-revived
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Being or feeling alone is hard, I think we all go through it at times especially when we feel week. Many have probably no doubt said to you, your never alone Jesus is with you, but I know how hard that can be when you can't physically see anything or one.
I actually have a picture in my mind at present also of the same feeling, a picture of being sat in a small white room with us both sat in the corner, and theres nothing else in there, its like a whole in the heart and it hurts alot, there is only that one answer though and thats the one I find difficult to see like you. Jesus is there, but were hurting that much we can't see him.
Lord I pray you'll show your presence to Norma in a very special way, wether its through getting to know a friend, or just by your presence. Amen
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I actually have a picture in my mind at present also of the same feeling, a picture of being sat in a small white room with us both sat in the corner, and theres nothing else in there, its like a whole in the heart and it hurts alot, there is only that one answer though and thats the one I find difficult to see like you. Jesus is there, but were hurting that much we can't see him.
Lord I pray you'll show your presence to Norma in a very special way, wether its through getting to know a friend, or just by your presence. Amen
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ChowdersMom
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Norma_Jean,
From my own experience, one of the best ways to come out of loneliness is to get my eyes off of myself and onto others.
The more I think about my loneliness, the more magnified the problem becomes and the more painful. And one thing will lead to another and before I know it, I'm into deep depression.
Reach out to others, when you feel loneliness come. Get on CF and pray for people. Minister to a neighbor, a friend, a family member.
Call someone you know has a need ask if there's anything you can do for them.
And at the end of the day, get in the Word and spend time with God. He IS the Word (John 1:1), so you're in His presence when you're in His Word.
It isn't easy at first, but I can tell you it gets easier as you persevere, and it even becomes something you look forward to.
When your spirit is being nourished with the Word, it builds your faith and the nearness of God becomes more and more real. Then, the mind and emotions begin to change to come in line with the Word of God and loneliness will flee from you.
Digging into the Word is the only way to turn that head knowledge of God (mental assent) into heart knowledge (spiritual certainty).
Be blessed, brother.
From my own experience, one of the best ways to come out of loneliness is to get my eyes off of myself and onto others.
The more I think about my loneliness, the more magnified the problem becomes and the more painful. And one thing will lead to another and before I know it, I'm into deep depression.
Reach out to others, when you feel loneliness come. Get on CF and pray for people. Minister to a neighbor, a friend, a family member.
Call someone you know has a need ask if there's anything you can do for them.
And at the end of the day, get in the Word and spend time with God. He IS the Word (John 1:1), so you're in His presence when you're in His Word.
It isn't easy at first, but I can tell you it gets easier as you persevere, and it even becomes something you look forward to.
When your spirit is being nourished with the Word, it builds your faith and the nearness of God becomes more and more real. Then, the mind and emotions begin to change to come in line with the Word of God and loneliness will flee from you.
Digging into the Word is the only way to turn that head knowledge of God (mental assent) into heart knowledge (spiritual certainty).
Be blessed, brother.
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Lord help uplift our friend
From not being lonely
As with and in you
She is never, ever lonely
Let her lean on you
Grant and give her your love and care
In thy name and will amen
From not being lonely
As with and in you
She is never, ever lonely
Let her lean on you
Grant and give her your love and care
In thy name and will amen
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gotta be married to Him, pleas Lord make yourself real to Norma_Jean... put real arms around him and a real sense of belonging to your family
Matt 6:33
Matt 6:33
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