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Tips for men from a man

blackribbon

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I kind of thought that "dress like you could meet the love of your life" would mean that you are CLEAN, in good repair, fix, and dressed appropriately for the activity. For women, this would mean you aren't wearing slippers or pajama bottoms in the grocery store. For men, that would mean that you weren't smelly or your pants weren't do raggedy or so low hung that your underwear shows.
 
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Quite a few of these are poor advice , certainly from a Christian perspective. It would apply well to the worldly person even though its still bad advice to them .

You just cant beat the wisdom of Gods Word for doing life.

Okay...I'll bite. Except for #2, what is possibly "anti-Christian" in that list. Personally, I'd even say that #2 could be reworded to say "don't marry anyone who doesn't love you as much as you love them"...so that still can fall under "good advice" .
 
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Randoman

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Number 39 doesn't say "dress up" anywhere it in.

And honestly, you DON'T judge women on THEIR looks? Really?

I kind of thought that "dress like you could meet the love of your life" would mean that you are CLEAN, in good repair, fix, and dressed appropriately for the activity. For women, this would mean you aren't wearing slippers or pajama bottoms in the grocery store. For men, that would mean that you weren't smelly or your pants weren't do raggedy or so low hung that your underwear shows.

i like women in pajama bottoms and slippers in the grocery store. and no i don't judge women on their looks. i'm not good looking so why should i judge women on the way they look?
 
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