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Thoughts & Controlling Them.....

Brian90

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I started seeking God, and started reading the Holy Bible. Very soon, I didnt have the urge to look at porn or touch (most of the time).

Now I can control the temptations better than I did before I started seeking God and reading the Holy Bible.

When I fail, I pray to God to forgive me and to help me resist the temptations. I hardly have all those sexually immoral thoughts in my mind now. I can go on longer and longer without masturbating/looking at porn.

I try to read at least 1 chapter a day from the Holy Bible. This helps me greatly to resist the tempatation to touch.

p.s. check some threads here, there are alot of interesting topics.

http://www.christianforums.com/f214&daysprune=-1&order=desc&sort=views
 
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bigdAddyweAve423

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Brian90 said:
I started seeking God, and started reading the Holy Bible. Very soon, I didnt have the urge to look at porn or touch (most of the time).

Now I can control the temptations better than I did before I started seeking God and reading the Holy Bible.

When I fail, I pray to God to forgive me and to help me resist the temptations. I hardly have all those sexually immoral thoughts in my mind now. I can go on longer and longer without masturbating/looking at porn.

I try to read at least 1 chapter a day from the Holy Bible. This helps me greatly to resist the tempatation to touch.

p.s. check some threads here, there are alot of interesting topics.

http://www.christianforums.com/f214&daysprune=-1&order=desc&sort=views
Thanks for the words of encouragement. I am in the word everyday & am getting closer to the Lord. As far as the urge to touch/look at porn. Those are few & far between, thanks to the Lord. As far as the thoughts in my head. I know that since I have gotten rid of the porn, these have grown in intensity, I know they will fade, the closer I get to the Lord. Please continue to pray for me.

I just have a question??

Does anyone ever have something cross your mind that you know is wrong & stupid??
 
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Brian90

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bigdAddyweAve423 said:
Thanks for the words of encouragement. I am in the word everyday & am getting closer to the Lord. As far as the urge to touch/look at porn. Those are few & far between, thanks to the Lord. As far as the thoughts in my head. I know that since I have gotten rid of the porn, these have grown in intensity, I know they will fade, the closer I get to the Lord. Please continue to pray for me.

I just have a question??

Does anyone ever have something cross your mind that you know is wrong & stupid??

Your welcome. I will be praying for you. :thumbsup:

Yes that happened before.
 
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Controlling our minds takes practice and discipline. This little book is free and helped me greatly. Easy to download for easy access.



The Practice Of The Presence Of God
[FONT=Verdana, sans serif]Conversations and Letters
of Brother Lawrence http://www.practicegodspresence.com/brotherlawrence/index.html
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In this small book, through letters and conversations, Brother Lawrence simply and beautifully explains how to continually walk with God - not from the head but from the heart. Brother Lawrence left the gift of a way of life available to anyone who seeks to know God's peace and presence; that anyone, regardless of age or circumstance, can practice -anywhere, anytime. Brother Lawrence also left the gift of a direct approach to living in God's presence that is as practical today as it was three hundred years ago.
 
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