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Rosa Mystica

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Pink Angel said:
it is not so much that anything was said bad about me but the fact the it feels like i am the bad person in the situation, because i chose to break up but i hate not being with him, but i just cant handle a relationship

Can't handle a relationship with Swoosh, or can't handle any relationship, period?

Sweetheart, he may be the right one for you, but this may not be the right time to be together, kwim? Just b/c you're not w/ him at the moment doesn't mean you never will be again (I should know; I'm an expert in the area of on-again, off-again relationships).

And no, I don't think you're a bad person either. I've been in both your position and your ex's position recently (both are painful, though I hate being the dumpee more). I know what it's like. Besides, if you are not doing well right now, it will be very hard for you to have a healthy relationship. I would say, wait till you are better, and then re-evaluate the situation again.

Take care, PA. And feel free to PM me if you need.

Rosa Mystica
 
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