This may be my last thread/post

[Pink Angel]

Hey guys,

Well you all have obviously heard what has gone on. And I cant continue to post here anymore know thing some of you think that I am a heartbreaker and that I have hurt swoosh. I just want you all to know that it is NOT something i wanted but something I HAD to do. I am sorry swoosh, if you dont quite understand this right now and I am sorry that I hurt you so much, but the thing is I am hurting just as much. I feel overwhelmed by everything. I am anemic and it is really kicking my butt lately, in fact i almost passed out yesturday and my mom has informed me that I may be a little hypoglassemic(spelling?) That is not a good sign and my mom has said it has been brought on by stress. If this is true chances are high that I can get diabetes in the near future. I am really sorry but I dont think i can post anymore knowing that everyone thinks that I am a bad person for doing so. I am sorry

Pink Angel

* *this is my 2-week notice**

 

[Pink Angel]

also, reading swoosh's post totaly brought even more guilt onto me but i am so sorry!

 

[Dream]

You don't have to leave. I don't know what happened between you and swoosh, but you are a great member of OBOB. I'm sure all will be forgiven.

 

[JeffreyLloyd]

Please don't leave

 

[faerieevaH]

When two friends break up, their group of friends shouldn't ask 'who is at fault' but... "how can we help you both?" There is room here for both you and Swoosh. Last time I read that thread no one here said anything bad about you.

 

[Pink Angel]

it is not so much that anything was said bad about me but the fact the it feels like i am the bad person in the situation, because i chose to break up but i hate not being with him, but i just cant handle a relationship

 

[nyj]

Knowing both Swoosh and yourself, I think you're both wonderful people. With that said, I always felt as if "young sweethearts" who envisioned marriage, or a long term relationship at an early age (anything under 24 to me is an early age) were only setting themselves up for a fall. I personally (and may catch flak for this) think it's simply not realistic.

Obviously, there are instances which prove me wrong, but if the romantic relationship is over between you and Swoosh, that doesn't make my opinion of you diminsh. You both are young, and who knows what the future may bring, for either one of you. If it was not meant to be, it was not meant to be, and you can't force a person to stay in a relationship and expect things to be happy.

Both of you have your whole lives ahead of you. Enjoy it, and find someone (in due time) who loves to enjoy it with you. Fall in love with a person, not an idea. To many people (myself included) fall into that trap.

 

[ProCommunioneFacior]

Pink Angel,

I don't think anybody here sees you as a bad person. We were just offering our condolences to Swoosh. I don't know the situation but sometimes we have to do difficult things, and it is obvious that it pains you to break up but at the same time you feel it is necessary, there is nothing wrong with that.

I am sorry that you are going through so much right now, I will pray for you and hope everything works out.

 

[KennySe]

Pink Angel,
please don't go.

Be less "visible", but please do stick around.

Participate on the friendly threads and avoid the more aggresive/argumentative ones.

We don't want to add to your stress.

We do want you to feel at home here.

Peace be with you.

 

[Miss Shelby]

Hey guys,

Well you all have obviously heard what has gone on. And I cant continue to post here anymore know thing some of you think that I am a heartbreaker and that I have hurt swoosh. I just want you all to know that it is NOT something i wanted but something I HAD to do. I am sorry swoosh, if you dont quite understand this right now and I am sorry that I hurt you so much, but the thing is I am hurting just as much. I feel overwhelmed by everything. I am anemic and it is really kicking my butt lately, in fact i almost passed out yesturday and my mom has informed me that I may be a little hypoglassemic(spelling?) That is not a good sign and my mom has said it has been brought on by stress. If this is true chances are high that I can get diabetes in the near future. I am really sorry but I dont think i can post anymore knowing that everyone thinks that I am a bad person for doing so. I am sorry

Pink Angel

* *this is my 2-week notice**

I didn't know that you and swoosh broke up, but I can tell you what happened between you and him is not something that I would ever hold against either of you. It's between you and him.

If you feel you have to go, it is very understandable, but you're always welcome. And I'm sorry about what you both are going through.

Michelle

 

[Benedicta00]

Pink,

I understand what is going on. I don't believe you are a bad person. nyj pretty much summed up my thoughts as well. You both have plenty of time to resume a relationship when you are older. This doesn't have to be the end. Swoosh will come to see that.

 

[Sacha Saint Francis]

Dear Pink Angel,

I think it would be unwise for you to leave at this time. OBOB is a nurturing family that can bring comfort and healing,
ESPECIALLY for the recently converted,
ESPECIALLY for the recently broken-hearted,
ESPECIALLY for you.


Our OBOB (just like our Father's House) is very big, with very many rooms in it, and with space enough for you and Swoosh to play in and not have to see each other. I'm in here every day, as is my husband, and most days we don't see a single one of each other's posts.

Don't go....... Pleeeeeeeeezzzzzzz

Your recently converted sister,
Sacha

 

[thereselittleflower]

also, reading swoosh's post totaly brought even more guilt onto me but i am so sorry!

Hi Pink Angel . . .

You are both hurt . . we don't know why this happened, but I don't think anyone here thinks you broke up for reasons that were frivolous or that you intended to hurt anyone . . you are hurting too . .

Please don't leave because you think we are taking sides . . it is hard when two people you know are both hurting like this . . .. there are no sides to take . . just know that people are here to support both of you and help you both. . . .


You both are special to us here at CF . . please don't leave if you can help it.



Peace in Him!

 

[thereselittleflower]

it is not so much that anything was said bad about me but the fact the it feels like i am the bad person in the situation, because i chose to break up but i hate not being with him, but i just cant handle a relationship

There is wisdom in realizing when one is not in a place that they can handle a relationship . . It may be something temporary, or it may be something that you realize you are not ready for for several more years. . . Take time to sort it out . . .


Peace in Him!

 

[CrystalBrooke]

you're not the bad person sweetie...and no one thinks you are...in fact id be willing to bet that swoosh doesnt even think that...im here if you ever need to talk...dont leave...we love you

 

[ps139]

Aww Pink, I hate breakups, I was in the same position as you about a year ago, I know it feels terrible. And about 2 1/2 years ago I was in Swoosh's position. I really don't know which one is worse. But please stick around!!!!! There is no reason for you to go!

 

[ukok]

PA, our showing support to Swoosh when he was asking for prayers and a chance to talk about his pain, in no way means that you are cast as the big bad girlfriend

Swoosh is entitled to come here and pour out his heart without you feeling that it adds more guilt on top of you...just as you are entitled to come here and start your own thread about leaving, without offending Swoosh

You are both great young people, and i have enjoyed many of yours and Swoosh's post's...what happens between you guys is not my concern..but i would hate for you to feel like this is a 'him' or 'me' kind of situation...you can both still fellowship here, but it may be unbearablly difficult and that is understandable.


I'm praying for you both..not for a reconcilliation of your relationship, but for the healing of your heart's..God will do the rest, whatever that might be.

God Bless.

 

[Swoosh]

PA - I am truly sorry that my post caused you more pain! I did not intend for it to be taken like that. I came here because I love these people just as much as you do, and in a time of need, it is best to surround one with friends and family. I do NOT think you are a bad person, and I am sorry if I came off like that. We all, including me, still love you very much and our perception of you hasn't changed.

Words really cannot describe emotion.... so smileys will have to work!



Well Im off to do more homework, yippie!

Again, I am sorry,
Swoosh

 

[PolskiKrol]

I wouldn't be too anxious about hypoglycemia, I was diagnosed with it a few years ago; Its the opposite of diabetes, you make too much insulin. But, you just have to watch your diet (HINT: High Fructose and regular Corn Syrup is still sugar! And also watch out for starches.)

 

[ZooMom]

Pink Angel, sweetheart, please don't feel that you cannot come to us here. No one here is judging you. On the contrary, we know from some of the things you have shared with us the enormous stress and uncertainty you are dealing with in your life right now. You and Swoosh are both hurting right now, and both of you need comfort. There is no blame to cast, and no guilt to lay. Our love and concern for you does not depend on your relationship with Swoosh, and vice versa. You are both beloved of God, and of us. I hope that you will continue to come to us, and I hope as well that though you may need to back away from the intensity of a romantic relationship, that you will see the wisdom in not backing away from a friend. If you ever feel the need to talk, my PM box is always open.

My prayers are with you, my sister. Peace be with you.

Sandy