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This is a "different" kind of grief, but.....

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Quiet Storm

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This time I'm back for good. I'm finally on the road to graduation and I have more time to spend on the forums. I am, however, experiencing a kind of "grieving" that may be somewhat different from the other kinds that are on this forum:

This past year I did everything in my power to be a good student. The only bad part is that a lot of things that were supposed to be priority took a back seat. I never really got the hang of combining spirituality with my academic life, so the latter took over. Moreover, I've come out of what I'd call a "backslidden" state. For about two years I was deceived into thinking that God didn't accept certain areas of my life that I was devoting wholeheartedly to Him (i.e., prayer, worship, etc.) and as a result I experienced a great deal of grief, stopped all of the aforementioned "actions" and fell off hard. Soon afterwards, I realized that what I believed wasn't the truth and spent a great deal of time trying to continue with my spiritual life like nothing happened, but I could never get back on track the way I wanted to and knew I should have been. I've recently come to identify the true cause of my "falling away", so to speak (I thought that God didn't accept my personal "sacrifices" and thus tried to act, pray, and do things like other people). I've repented and all, but I still feel myself experiencing a lot of grieving because I was so strong spiritually at one point and time and now I'm at a level that is so low. I'm upset with myself because I let something like this happen and find it difficult to continue with something like this in the back of my mind.......what I really need more than ever is prayer support because I REALLY want to just be on fire for God more than I've ever been before.....but at the same time I feel like I may need to properly heal from this..... I don't know what to call it. :sigh:
 

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briefly there are things you can do to become unruffled here,try some serenity by being positive,appoint daily quiet(prayer)time..wow this is the number one stress and get-back-to Jesus trick.CONCENTRATE on now. if you have peace inside,these thoughts will subside,peace!
 
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Student life consumes quite a lot of time, God knows this. He as they say it' understands the difficult situations' that people are in. Your situation included. You want to be a loving and helping person. And it is what lies in your heart that counts. He would give you another chance to love him and do good just as much as he gives the flowers each year another chance to grow in spring. And if you are a loving and helping person, then you should try to grow back towards God, like a flower does towards the sun.
 
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Quiet Storm,

It's difficult to fall down and get back up again, but that's why Jesus is the one you trust in. Don't be ashamed of asking him to help you get out of this rut. He understands that you have ups and downs... remember, he became a human once too...

Your heart is in the right place. A friend of mine said that he wants to make it to a point where everything he does glorifies God, but he doesn't think he's capable of that. Another friend, pipped up and told him that God knows that's his heart's desire and that's good enough for God.

Our spiritual journey (key word, journey) will have twists and turns and ups and downs, but as long as you keep pressing forward, that's what matters. God will help you along the way, and He's always there to guide you.

Ya know, I think I should take my own advice sometimes... I myself feel farther away from God than before, but it's a continuing process, and I have to continue to just pray and press into God. Sometimes when I don't feel like praying, that's when I really need to pray the most...

Hope that helps... I hope you find the matches you've been looking for to set yourself on fire for God again :)
 
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