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Thinking about deactivating

MayMcFlurry

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I don't know where else to write this. I joined this forum to feel a sense of community as a new Christian, and instead I find people here are argumentative and condescending to newcomers. I feel real let down.

Maybe it's just me and I am sensitive, I'm struggling with C-PTSD, DID and CFS and get easily triggered a lot. But I can't be in a place that is supposed to be loving and supportive and instead is hostile and seemingly un-Christlike.

I apologize to those of you who are genuine and kind but I am seriously thinking about delete my account. There are far better things to be doing than debating online. Like actually changing the world and making it a better place.
 
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daughterofthemosthigh7

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Then it's not just me after all lol and as is with anywhere else you go: work school church wherever HERE! the entire world there's always gonna be someone who we don't see eye to eye with-- don't let that stop you-- but if its outweighing the good then maybe you have point and is cause for concern~ praying you might stick around longer and find your niche and the support/encouragement/fellowship from others that you were hoping for and also the strength and ability to ignore the "opposition" in Jesus' Mighty Name! Take care sister :) :heart:
 
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