things to do and time issues.

[lil_god_lova]

hey guys. I've been going out with this guy for a month (very strong already as it was very close to it for a year) and we have very little time together or that. what would be a way to get some more time and also a way to have fun together ... ie just fun random things to do that don't cost much.

 

[urbanfaerie]

go hiking.
or beach..
egg ppl's houses
horse back riding..
go jogging together..
make out. heh.

 

[GodBoy809]

a good way to have fun....sit and cuddle, watch some TV or a movie or just talk..always fun...also going out and doing stuff. however, i dont recomend egging ppls houses.

 

[chriso]

Go for a nice drive in the country and pack a picnic lunch. And then go for a nice long walk and just talk and enjoy nature. Maybe get a good book you are both interested in and read to each other.

 

[girlscoutdropout]

although cuddling and watching movies sounds sooo good, try to spend a good amount of time with other people as well, just so you don't fall into sin
going to movies is always fun, bowling, going out to eat, going to a park, going for a walk, going to a play.. i guess it depends on teh city you live in

 

[DaveKerwin]

People make time for what is important in their lives, so to me, making time is not the issue. The issue is what you do with that time. Split meals when you go out to eat. Look for free concerts or parks. I found free ice skating last winter, downtown, it was awesome. Find a cheap project and do it together (I bought an antique trunk for 20 bucks and we are painting it together, making a cool decoration out of it). Just keep your mind open, don't hang out in dark basements.

 

[JahRawks]

I agree, just find something fun and simple to do like going for a picnic, going for a walk, going bowling, or to a movie, just do simple stuff that both of you enjoy. God Bless-
Nathan

 

[Godzman]

spend good quality time with each other

 

[katelyn]

I agree with the ideas people already suggested. But I would also like to say that maybe it's okay that you are not spending a ton of time together right now. I dunno, it seems like in our society it's like if you're dating, there's a push to spend tons of time together. But maybe it's okay, maybe you're just at a point in your lives where you don't have a lot of time to spend together, and you can just take it slow.