Things NOT to say on as first date

[sweetlambofgod]

Oh, I know, but I mean further down the line.

Be honest, now - how often has it happened to you, where a guy who you thought you were just friends with turns out to have wanted to be MORE than friends?

only a few times, its more me wanting more lol

 

[sweetlambofgod]

These are hilarious

And at the end of the night, make sure that you never say "I really enjoyed the interview" :o

lol no kidding

 

[KomissarSteve]

only a few times, its more me wanting more lol

Hahaha, I can't believe THAT. With a face like yours, you've GOTTA be a heartbreaker!

But as for those few times that it does happen and guys end up wanting to be more than friends, that's really what I'm describing. And I hate to be the bearer of bad news, but those ones are just the ones who are saying something. I'm willing to bet you good money that the vast majority of the guys that you're "just friends" with who are single and around your age really are just waiting for an opportunity to ask you out.

 

[sweetlambofgod]

Hahaha, I can't believe THAT. With a face like yours, you've GOTTA be a heartbreaker!

But as for those few times that it does happen and guys end up wanting to be more than friends, that's really what I'm describing. And I hate to be the bearer of bad news, but those ones are just the ones who are saying something. I'm willing to bet you good money that the vast majority of the guys that you're "just friends" with who are single and around your age really are just waiting for an opportunity to ask you out.

oh I believe that and most of them have a few times haha. Especially these certain 3, its like I'm not interested GO AWAY!

 

[KomissarSteve]

Hahaha, see?! Told you!

Yeah, we guys are weird, what can I say. I find it's a better policy when asking a girl out to make a "statement of interest" early on - ie: letting her know that I'm attracted to her and would like to go out on a date with her to see if we want to, you know, "try something out." The real trick is not coming on too strong with that, though, of course...

 

[sweetlambofgod]

Hahaha, see?! Told you!

Yeah, we guys are weird, what can I say. I find it's a better policy when asking a girl out to make a "statement of interest" early on - ie: letting her know that I'm attracted to her and would like to go out on a date with her to see if we want to, you know, "try something out." The real trick is not coming on too strong with that, though, of course...

I'm sure you're pro

 

[KomissarSteve]

Hahaha, well, I dunno about that. But I HAVE had a lot of trial-and-error...emphasis on the error.

 

[Annova]

This is How to lose a Guy in less then 10 days

I also think having ones mom drive you and your date is not the best idea!! (this happened to a friend of mine)

Yep and real quick too. Whenever I hear the "mom" word I'm like "just great." Lol!

 

[Annova]

you dont know that. I would love a guy who would watch girly things with me.

Me too but it would have to depend on what it was. If he never watched any of my favorite shows then he's not going to. I don't want to spend the whole hour trying to explain whats happening. Yes I've had that happen before. I was watching "lost" and the questions kept on coming and it was so annoying. So my rule now is "if you havn't watch it, your not now."

 

[KomissarSteve]

Me too but it would have to depend on what it was. If he never watched any of my favorite shows then he's not going to. I don't want to spend the whole hour trying to explain whats happening. Yes I've had that happen before. I was watching "lost" and the questions kept on coming and it was so annoying. So my rule now is "if you havn't watch it, your not now."

Hahaha, now THIS is a lady who knows how to lay down the law!

Me likee. ~_^

 

[HotToast]

lol no kidding

It's actually something I heard a comedian say...

 

[Tenorvoice]

Things not to say on a first date:

"Man... this itches... will you excuse me??"

"I hope you don't mind, I invited my mother to come with us"

Someone I know actually had this happen:
Dont tell a girl that all you want to see her in is a cowboy hat and a pair of boots...

ROTFL

 

[TySJI]

1) "I vote for Ralph Nader"
2) "Actually, I became more sensitive after castration"
3) "There was a sign in the bathroom that said 'please wash your hands', but I'm pretty sure it's just for employees. Can I touch your food?"

Edit: NM the above. Thought this was a thread about stuff you do say on dates.

 

[flaglady]

I wouldn't reccomend saying "Will you marry me?"

Though I know a guy who did that on their second date (which was a week and 1/2 after the first). They have been married for about 30 some years and are an incredibly Godly couple.

That is exactly what I was thinking.

Worked for Buddy Holly, tha knows!!

Sad note: Mind, he did have a prophetic sense of not having much time ..... and they were only married 6 months

 

[catofhope]

Things NOT to say on a first date

Use of "WE" and "OUR" especially in regard to futuristic plans such as:

Where are WE going to be living?

Won't OUR children look good and be smart?

 

[Balugon]

To a girl- *looking really closely* "Hey, you got a little mustache hair there!"

To a guy- "Your kinda scrawny, arent you."

 

[Lessien]

To a girl: "Let's go pick out a wedding cake."

 

[Annova]

Hahaha, now THIS is a lady who knows how to lay down the law!

Me likee. ~_^

And let me say one more thing, It's in gold print and in Annova's SO's Constitution. Thou shall not watch tv show thou hasn't watched before.

 

[Bunnymedic]

Can you get me a Heine (heineken) so I can touch it?

 

[Bunnymedic]

Are your boobs real? ..