They are trying to MAKE HER lose the baby *triggs*

[spoiltbrat2003]

Hi
II am not sure this is in the right place, and i am sorry but if your easily upset please DO NOT read on because I am upset myself I admit I didn't want this (I am not in the best person to cope with it all right now)

My good friend 19 year old bright young university student, hs gotten pregnant her boyfriend of 25 (spineless excuse of a man) refuses to stand by her and says if she doesn't have an abortion he will leave her,
she pretty much stood by her desicion and I am soo glad she did it!

His parents and him came round to her house trying to talk her into it 3 against one, now they are purposely trying to stress her out so she will lose it I am so angry but she wants me to restrain myself,

In a way it has nothing to do with me, but I was the first person she told and she wants me for lots of much needed support,
I feel so out of my depth I am not long out of hosp myself its just all been thrown at me,
I went to tell him exactly what I thought of him but she stopped me I just don't know how to react !
3 grown adults being so awful, I can't believe they want this baby dead so badly they willl regret it

 

[J20]

This has got to be so hard for both you and your friend, I will happily pray for both of you.

 

[spoiltbrat2003]

Thankyou, I have been praying too
I just don't understand why this has suddenly turned into a big soap oprea !

 

[BelindaP]

She probably has grounds to apply for a restraining order. I suggest she do so. That way they won't be able to harrass her in such an awful way.

 

[spoiltbrat2003]

They are not violent or abusive, just persistant,
I find it really chilling,

Prayers that go out its for Tina

 

[BelindaP]

A person doesn't have to fear for their life to get a restraining order. One only needs to fear that they might be harmed. If the stress being caused by another person is enough to put her in danger of miscarriage, she can apply for one that will keep them away from her until that danger is past.

 

[spoiltbrat2003]

Ok thanks I will put it to her !

 

[BelindaP]

Glad to help. If they persist, I hope she does it.

They should respect her right to choose.

 

[lavenderskies]

I pray your friend stands by her choice to bring this beautiful child into the world. The bible tells us Children are a gift from the lord they are his reward unto us.

I also suggest the restraining order and would also let them her know its also harrassment.

 

[jenrenee]

I agree that a restraining order is a good idea. Having a baby should be a happy time in someone's life - and I'm so sorry that she has to be put through this. I will definitely keep you and Tina in my prayers. I just found out my 19 year old sister is pregnant. I guess she is pretty lucky as her bf is standing by her and abortion was never an option to them. Kudos to you for being such a great friend (and to her for keeping the baby!)- just continue to be there for her, she's going to need you!

 

[UnitynLove]

I will pray for her.

 

[lostndown]

OMGOSH THATS HORRIBLE!!!!! i'll keep her in my thoughts and prayers. stress is never good in a pregnancy and they are dumb to do this on purpose. they all need to grow up and leave her alone and if he doesnt support it, tell her to get child support from this guy.

how far along is she??? ill be praying for her and baby's health

love to her and baby

hugs

 

[OceanGirl]

Okay, that is just cruel. I hope that she is okay.

 

[JesusChristIsKing]

That's horrible of them. The restraining order sounds like a good idea. I hope she doesn't give into them...she should bring the baby into this world...

 

[spoiltbrat2003]

Just a quick update both mummy and baby are doing ok

 

[Buttermilk]

s for Tina

 

[lostndown]

yay! good news! i'll keep em in my prayers. how far along is she now??? *hugs mom and baby*

keep us updated! thanks