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There's this guy.......

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And I really like him but I don't know how to make that known!! I've never been in this situation before. My friend was supposed to do some digging for me but she asked him outright what he thought of me and he said that i'm a nice girl - what does that mean? I have no idea about these thing!!
 

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I know this time can be very exciting, but I think it's important that the guy should lead the whole thing... of course guys needs some help sometimes :wink: but really they gotta take the responsibility/leadership from the moment the whole thing starts, cause they're going the be the head of the family.

BTW are your major criterias from your "list'" ticked by him?
 
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I'm with Mr. Dude on this one... if you like him, you should just tell him.

We're not in high school anymore where you go through your friends and pass notes to find out if you like people.

Women have a tendency to think they are being very aggressive, when in reality they are very subtle in their hints... Guys are pretty dumb sometimes, and unless you flat out tell us that you like us - there is a good chance we won't figure it out on our own.
 
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goat37 said:
I'm with Mr. Dude on this one... if you like him, you should just tell him.

We're not in high school anymore where you go through your friends and pass notes to find out if you like people.

Women have a tendency to think they are being very aggressive, when in reality they are very subtle in their hints... Guys are pretty dumb sometimes, and unless you flat out tell us that you like us - there is a good chance we won't figure it out on our own.

I know we are not in high school anymore - i'm just really dim when it comes to these things - i've never really been in this situation before!!!

I might tell him but I'm not sure - everyone seems to have different advice on this one - whether i should tell him or wait till he makes the first move!!! It's difficult to know which advice to take.....
 
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goat37 said:
I'm with Mr. Dude on this one... if you like him, you should just tell him.

We're not in high school anymore where you go through your friends and pass notes to find out if you like people.

Women have a tendency to think they are being very aggressive, when in reality they are very subtle in their hints... Guys are pretty dumb sometimes, and unless you flat out tell us that you like us - there is a good chance we won't figure it out on our own.


^^^^^ This man speaks the truth.
 
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I am not planning on declaring my undying love for him anyway, i think it's good to be friends with him. I will be hanging out with him - he lives 4 hours from me and i'm going to go to Bristol for a weekend in July.... because he asked me too
 
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beetlequeendiva said:
I am not planning on declaring my undying love for him anyway, i think it's good to be friends with him. I will be hanging out with him - he lives 4 hours from me and i'm going to go to Bristol for a weekend in July.... because he asked me too

Hope that you have fun and God bless you two!
 
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