Sister Coralie-
Our faith is in God, not men. Our faith is in Christ. He did it. We believe it. His eyewitnesses left us a record.
Our faith is not in vain, regardless of wolves entering in.
Yes--my faith is in God, not men. He did it, and I believe it, and my faith is not in vain even though wolves entered in (which, of course, they did--but I don't believe they became the arbiters of the Church we have today).
But I
am part of the Body of Christ, and I don't distrust it no matter if it disappoints me at times.
What I meant by statement was that if Jesus said "Peter, you are the Rock, and upon this Rock I will build my Church, and the gates of Hell will not prevail against it", and then the Church was immediately infected by idolatry (etc etc), then that would make Jesus a liar.
If I thought Jesus lied about His Church, I wouldn't be able to take His claims seriously. I wouldn't have been able to leave atheism and become a Christian when I was 22.
I hope that makes sense?
Gates of hell isn't offensive weapon, but defensive. They hold people in. Peter in prison (Acts) is an example. He got out and preached.
I can see how you would interpret that verse in that way, but I don't and never have.
Even if I did, though:
If the Church is meant to be "the pillar and ground of Truth",
... but it fell into error immediately after being created
.... and was only put back on the straight and narrow at the Reformation (at the earliest)
...then I can't take its original witnesses seriously, since the Bible lied anyway.
Understood. It'd be like the example of OT. They were chosen. They went along over hundreds of years. Christ arrives and isn't too pleased with some of them. He is crucified, buried, and resurrected. The NT is begun. We go along for hundreds of years. Do you really think that the Church today is exactly like, or even close, to what He founded? Just the fact of schisms tells us otherwise.
So, whereever you're called from, stay there, as Paul says. Do what you can do..
I don't think the Church we have today is exactly like the 33 AD Church, simply because of different circumstances.
For example, they worshipped in the Temple back then, but now we have our own buildings and don't go to synagogues and mix with Jews much at all (unless Messianic I guess, but I don't know much about that so I can't comment). Outside of the Lord's Day, we do still meet in houses for fellowship and teaching, so that's probably similar.
Also, we aren't under persecution in the West, so of course that makes our Church life
much different to 33 AD and up till Constantine's time. Just as Churches in China right now look very different to ours.
All these variables change constantly. I don't think our Churches need to "look" like they did in 33 AD, or even use the same words in homilies, hymns, liturgies, etc--but the spirit of love and honour for God and one another,
and an understanding of Who God truly is [proper doctrine], always has to be there, otherwise it's not a Church.
I do feel that in my Church we understand that and we love God ardently. We take care of each other, take care of strangers, repent and pray to God for mercy and help, and try to work on our hearts so they reflect Christ, and not the world.
I don't feel that loving, remembering, and including Mary and the rest of the Body of Christ in Heaven makes us "not Christians" or idolators or what-have-you.

Not sure what you are when you go to Church.
I don't know what you mean by this... I'm hoping you aren't trying to say that I'm not a Christian when I go to Church...
I'll have to go back and see what's said and then comment.
"Where, in what I've written above, does the idolatrous transgression come in (if that makes sense, didn't know how else to put it)? Is it all based on the "dead saints don't pray for us" thing, or is it something else?"
As an example, read over the sub tuum prayer (post #424) and let me know what you think.
TBH, what I'm looking for is your thoughts on our Liturgy. Please do give me your thoughts when you can.
I will look over these though and comment on them:
Beneath your compassion,
We take refuge, O Mother of God:
do not despise our petitions in time of trouble:
but rescue us from dangers,
only pure, only blessed one.
Beneath thy mercy,
we take refuge, O Virgin Theotokos:
disdain not our supplications in our distress,
but deliver us from perils,
O only pure and blessed one.
Well, the first thing that strikes me is that it's very old-fashioned and contains a lot of things that we probably would formulate differently these days. Also, there are a lot of things assumed in this prayer (that is, the writer assumes we understand certain things about Mary).
To me, this prayer says, line by line:
1. Mary, we believe you have a compassionate/merciful character.
2. Thank goodness you are, because we know you'll pray for us. Our relief feels like refuge from our current troubles.
3. Please don't ignore our requests for your prayers.*
4. Please pray for us [because you know God's will for us, since you are in Heaven with Him, so]; whatever you pray will happen [since it's in line with God's will].
5. You are the purest and most blessed among the Saints [this refers to her virginity and her being chosen by God for such a special work]
*The formulation "do not despise/disdain" is used to show respect for the person you're talking to--a person of 200 AD, and indeed 33 AD, will have addressed their own earthly parent in this way.
I, as an EO Christian who understands Mary's proper place, don't have a problem with this prayer.
I
do have a problem with it if the person saying it believes that Mary "grants wishes" or some such. But any EO who believed that, and admitted it out loud, would be admonished pretty strongly. "Glory to God for all things!" is our watchword over at the EO subforum.
Thanks again for your responses. Let me know your thoughts on our Liturgy if you can--I'm still interested in your view.