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bogie said:I'm currently rocking around in this boat too. I am a pretty shy person as well, mainly when I don't know a person well. I kinda have to test the waters, to see what people are like. That's where my problem lies, I just need to realize that females are like any other person and they're not some foreign entity.
Highland Watchman said:I hear you there. And then there is a certain check in the gut or intuition that says "She's out of your league. You'll be turned down flat, brother!", which kind of forces me to keep my distance for a while, until believe it or not, the rejection does come and that same check in my gut says "See? I told you so!"
It's strange, when this is what you learn to expect, then all of a sudden you find a girl who says "yes", and you are blown completely out of the water and are suddenly in unfamiliar waters, which is kind of scary...
i know what ya mean ive been single for 3 years and im a single mom also , its hard i dont have a whole lot of friends cus i dont get out much , and for a job i babysit, so meeting people i next to near impossible!!! im like you just waiting for God to say here ya go!!!! live happily ever after!!! lolololOo~Lost~oO said:I have been single for almost 7 years.. I am a single mom who works fulltime and I would really like to meet more Christian people.. but it just is not happening![]()
I know it will happen when God thinks I am ready.. of course I am wanting ti to happen now.. I am tired of being alone and seeing everyone else in a relationship..
All in God's Time..so I am just waiting for when he thinks I am ready![]()
Who else is right where I am?![]()