Hey meadow. It's interesting that you are also a celibate. I think the point of the spirit being able to flow where ever it wants is that God can be exclusive and inclusionist whenever he wants to based on the motives of those he's judging.
I also agree that celibacy is not a requirement for inclusion in the 144k. I think the virginity mentioned probably refers more to a spiritual attitude than a physical state (which is consistent with Jesus' teachings about how God looks on the inside while man looks on the outside).
I believe the spiritual virginity being talked about here relates more to our attitudes towards emotions and sex, where we refuse to let our emotions influence us in situations where a rational examination of the situation is necessary. I think this is consistent with what Jesus said about forsaking family etc.
Celibacy provides an advantage in this area because it requires us to face those issues head on.
hi forge. WOW! 49? Congratulations on that kind of discipline. I only made it to 18

I belive that when it comes to a "higher" spiritual position, we cannot make a rule about it one way or the other. Celibacy really could put someone in that position, or it could mean nothing in God's eyes. So much depends on our motivations.
Paul made it quite clear that there really are spiritual benefits to staying single and Jesus described it as something that people do "for the kingdom of Heaven's sake". Celibacy is the superior option, but only if it's done for the right reasons.