I see the distinction, but I think it's an artificial one. To me, the analogy of president selecting candidates is like a CEO selecting products. I can lobby Pepsi to offer me Grapefruit-flavored soda, but the CEO ultimately decides what choices I'm going to get. And then I can vote (with dollars) whether to buy what they give me or go to Coke or Dr Pepper or whoever. I can lobby a singer to do the songs *I* want him to play, but ultimately he/she decides what album to put out, and I vote yea or nay on buying the album.
I understand the analogie but I don't think any of them are apt - each is an apples-oranges comparison in my mind.
The United States isn't a corporation and our president isn't a CEO (or artist) and we aren't its' customers. And if it puts forth a product or service we don't like or want, we can't simply choose not to "buy" it.
WE are the government, you, me, all American citizens. The government exists because we consent to its existence, because we consent to electing people to it we want to represent us, in our absence.
I can try to influence what candidate runs for the Democratic seat, but ultimately NDCC, the President, the state Democratic party, and others are going to whittle my choices down, possibly to one and only one person, and then it's up to me to decide whether to vote for that person, for someone else, or stay home. I just don't see it as a crisis of democracy that a Democratic president has more influence over a state Democratic candidate (or Republican president on a state Republican candidate) than I do. If Democrats and Republicans were acting to prevent people, willing to jump through the necessary hoops, to get on a ballot as an independent, to me THAT would be a problem. But Democrat officials deciding Democrat candidates that I then choose to support or not? Nothing wrong with that to me.
This year I decided it was time to get involved in the process. I went to the caucuses, I went as a delegate to the county assembly, and then I went as a delegate to the state assembly. I had opportunity to vote at each level for the candidates my precinct (the 3 of us who showed up) wanted to run.
Other than missing the straw ballots prior to the caucuses, we decided who we wanted to be on the ballot for Senate, Congress, and the various state offices - not the state party, not any individual of influence, not the national party.
For all those who did not take part in this process, I guess you could say it was us who decided for them - we decided for whom they would get to vote in the primaries come August. From there, all of us will get to decide among those choices who we will vote for in November.
That's the process as it should be, I believe. And that's the process for every office but president. I think what you're describing is more descriptive of the process we have for who gets on the ballot for president - something the national parties have more weight determining than anything else. At some point, I want to understand that process better myself, to see where an individual citizen's involvement truly has place.
But for congress and senate, the republicans in my state at least, followed the process I described. Perhaps it's different for Democrats, I don't know - though their caucuses and state assembly pretty much mirrored ours, so I doubt it is.
But I remain firm in my belief that neither the judicial, legislative, or executive branches should be telling us, or determining for us for whom we should vote.
Perhaps we just need to agree to disagree...