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The Random Thoughts Thread

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Hanging in there...not REALLY enjoying the seasonal change, although the leaves here are about to get pretty...I suppose that is a good thing. Just isolating inside and doing some drawing...it's good at keeping me occupied.
Oh I love the seasonal changes, I live in the south now, so not much here for that. lol

I hope that things work out ok for you and the phony person...either that you're able to move on or that they come back and apologize to you.
meh, it doesn't matter anymore to me.

Since we're on the topic of phony, now you've got me wondering what you consider phony? For me, it's someone who says one thing and does another...hate that so much...and I also don't like passive aggressive behavior. Either say what you mean or don't say anything at all.

that's exactly what I feel too, if someone says one thing, but acts in a different way, it's like...just leave me be...you know?

How've you been Deidre? :hug:

OTHER THAN ALL THATTTT...I'm good. ^_^

I'm dating a guy, only a few dates...I miss the guy I broke up a few months ago, he was great. But, maybe this time, I won't mess things up.

You would be fun to have coffee with, tins. YOU ...are not phony. :hug: At least to me. Thank you for being kind.

Hope you have an awesome night! <3
 
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A new guy in your life? Cool :thumbsup:

Hey, it takes two to tango...I'm sure the other guy wasn't perfect either...don't be so hard on yourself...

Glad you're doing alright! Yeah it was about 60 degrees here and now it's really dark...and cold...and it's going to get down to freezing temperature... :eek: I'm done with it!

I'd love to have coffee with you :) I love going out to coffee with people...or just hanging out...don't get much of that here...I live a pretty isolated life here...not by choice though! It's just isolated up here!
 
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Oh, I know those types too...like the ones that say they forgive a person for something they didn't do, then to find out they DIDN'T forgive ya...that can be a bummer...
 
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I don't really like Will Ferrell anymore. I mean, I used to laugh and think he was pretty funny.. but I don't understand the whole reporter guy thing he is doing. It is a reporter right? It's weird. I don't get it.

:confused: :scratch:

He sure can be a weirdo that's for sure...
 
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I'm sorry to hear that Deidre...please know my PM box is always open if you need to chat about something.

Try to not let whatever it is get to you...especially if it wasn't directed at you...just let it roll off your back if you can...I KNOW that's hard.

I'm sorry that you're crying :hug: Take care of yourself...
 
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Hey Deidre, this person you're talking about, maybe make a way for them to contact you so you know they're not phony

I did, after I reached out to the person extending an Olive branch.
To no avail.

It's ok, i just don't get some people. :(
Some talk a good game, though.

Have a good night.


And thanks Tins! ((Hugs))
Have a nice night, too.
 
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Deidre, if you're referring to somebody here at CF, I noticed that you have no ways of contact, so maybe this person can't contact you to mend things?

Hope you feel better...
 
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I may have to try sometime...ever watch Adult Swim? Oh man, I love Squidbillies, Aqua Teen Hunger Force, Family Guy, American Dad, those sorts...

I like alot of the old sitcoms from the 70's and 80's..some from the 90's..
 
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I'm watching now Diedre. Funny!!
Lol yes it is!! ^_^
At a friend's watching Football...or pretending to lol
^_^ if it's not the steelers, why bother? hehe
I may have to try sometime...ever watch Adult Swim? Oh man, I love Squidbillies, Aqua Teen Hunger Force, Family Guy, American Dad, those sorts...

I like alot of the old sitcoms from the 70's and 80's..some from the 90's..

Was that your ...um era? :sorry:

Lol yea, I like family guy, though.
 
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