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The Random Thoughts Thread

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it's unusual not seeing you both havin' a blast here.....

It's unusual for me too lol it's taken a lot of adjustment on my part but people change and that's ok...I've had to learn to roll with it, and it was a good lesson for me...needed to learn it...
 
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LOL! yu noticed that, eh?

yer responses to peoples that forego yer thread is quite curious.....

da queen o' hearts haz da soup...she's waitin' fer ya', mon

*checkin' Google translate*

All's I understand is the soup is there, yay ^_^
 
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Originally Posted by brinny View Post
it's unusual not seeing you both havin' a blast here.....

It's unusual for me too lol it's taken a lot of adjustment on my part but people change and that's ok...I've had to learn to roll with it, and it was a good lesson for me...needed to learn it...

how has she changed?
 
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Originally Posted by brinny View Post
LOL! yu noticed that, eh?

yer responses to peoples that forego yer thread is quite curious.....

da queen o' hearts haz da soup...she's waitin' fer ya', mon


*checkin' Google translate*

All's I understand is the soup is there, yay ^_^

i knew yu coulds rise to da occasion Jimmy.......
 
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Can't really say...and what I mean by that is I don't know how to explain it. I know in the past year or so, my relationship with her has changed a lot...it'd been coming for a while...and it was hard at first but I'm ok with it now. We're still really close...but in a much better way...it's all good!
 
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Can't really say...and what I mean by that is I don't know how to explain it. I know in the past year or so, my relationship with her has changed a lot...it'd been coming for a while...and it was hard at first but I'm ok with it now. We're still really close...but in a much better way...it's all good!

"much better way"?
 
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"much better way"?

Yep...another thing I can't really put into words. All I can think of is Ecclesiastes where it talks about a season for everything...we're still great friends...I was kinda codependent there for a while though...so now it's much more balanced...healthier...for that I am grateful...I am grateful she stuck with me through it all...helped me to see clearly and get my head on straight...something I'd needed for YEARS...
 
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Yep...another thing I can't really put into words. All I can think of is Ecclesiastes where it talks about a season for everything...we're still great friends...we were kind of codependent on eachother there for a while though...so now it's much more balanced...healthier...for that I am grateful...I am grateful she stuck with me through it all...helped me to see clearly and get my head on straight...something I'd needed for YEARS...

She's a Godly woman who loves God with all that is in her......it shines from her, even thru the internet.....God has His hand on her.....she's the real deal.
 
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She's a Godly woman who loves God with all that is in her......it shines from her, even thru the internet.....God has His hand on her.....she's the real deal.

Yep she sure is all the way! I really admire her courage and her love for God and people...she's just brilliant!
 
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Originally Posted by brinny View Post
what does that mean?

You'd asked him before how she was and he responded that she was doing good...that's all... :)

LOL! it's almost like she's an after thought ^_^
 
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Trust me, she's anything BUT an afterthought...he never shuts up about her but that's a good thing lol he's so sweet on her and I love it...it's actually inspired me to be better in my own marriage...they're the real deal too. It's cool to learn from so many different people and different relationships...I just love that God knows what He's doing...because I'm completely clueless :doh:
 
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Originally Posted by brinny View Post
She's a Godly woman who loves God with all that is in her......it shines from her, even thru the internet.....God has His hand on her.....she's the real deal.

Yep she sure is all the way! I really admire her courage and her love for God and people...she's just brilliant!

Actually, it's that God shines brilliantly through her.....she really IS a light shining in darkness.....

if what you say is true, why would you be less close than before? She would be a spiritual blessing, wouldn't she?
 
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