I have faith in my Pastor. I have faith in my Wife. I have faith in my Parents. That's the type of faith I'm referring to when I ask if it's wrong to have faith in a prophet.
And what type of second opinion are you looking to have within the church? Certain things are non-negotiable, and I'm not sorry for that. Other things however should be understood in their proper context, and should not be taught as doctrine. If Sr White was a prophet (as I believe she was) then don't I have a responsibility to heed the words she spoke?
Was her message, for our time, any different than Elijah, for his time, or Isaiah, for his time? Nothing good ever comes from distrusting the word of a prophet sent by God.
So you rather referred to a socall trust/faith, now thats Ok....
If you believe she was a prophet then keep up with it. Mormons, too, believe they have a prophet and it apparently works...
As for me, I think there is too much problems with EGW as to regard her as a prophet. I know how the system works, once you believe in a religious framework you will consider everyone who is opposing/questioning it, a threat, and you will do all kinds of mental gymnastics to defend your./her position.
Let me give you a few examples:
First thing, test the prophet!
EGW prophecies failed, lets take the food for worm stuff. From the moment on that she uttered/wrote down the prophecy passed a lot of years,since that was (and I might be mistaken) in the 1850s/1860s she was alive for lets say 50 years, she never got back to that prophecy, claiming it was all conditional, conditions having not been met and stuff. Instead people expected that it was gonna happen.
After everybody died (indluding her) we are facing a problem. The prophecy as such did not come to pass and can never come to pass (with regard to the believers present (not the 2nd coming of course).
What do we do?
two ways out: 1. conditions were not met - problem, there were no conditions to be fulfilled - solution, the 2nd coming was the condition - backdoor - she later claimed that the 2nd coming had been put on hold, and again never coming back to that prophecy. 2. Jonah and Niniveh are classic examples...
As for me I dont believe in stuff like the 2nd coming delayed, I believe in a set time by the Most High God. If you were to put my trust in her, I would not only have to accept that, but also and this is what most people dont seem to realize, would need to accept the possibility of God changing His plans contrary to what He stated (apparently that is in regard to EGW) earlier. In essence: Any future predictions by EGW or other bible prophets may be not valid any longer, since the possibility exists that God changed His plans. I know this is some crazy stuff, and of course I dont believe that, but its possible if you follow EGW.
Another thing that bothers me:
EGW forbis alcohol and calls it grape juice.
It has been talked about numerous times, fact is that alcohol was used in the bible, Paul says its good not to drink it and I agree with that but I dont agree with a mandatory abstinence. Personally I might even be abstinent if in the right environment (lets stay an adventist marriage and stuff) but I couldnt honestly tell everyone that I dont drink because the bible tells me not to and if someone came up with water into wine I couldnt tell him that a bishop is not entitled to drink too much grape juice, I just cant make that stunt. Its just not biblical.
There is so much more, people dont realize most of the things (someone said they cant think, cant read, poor David Conklin

). It is because they are engaged in that framework lifestyle, they just accept what is going on, afraid to question it. And right, if questioning it would destroy anyones faith, then lets not question it. Did people lose their faith because Luther question the authority of the pope?
Of course you can have faith in a prophet but always do remember that if the blind lead the blind, will they not both fall into the pit? Jesus speaks about many false prophets and never about a genuine one... the book of revelation is for me the end of the prophets, Why would God need another prophet if everything has been outlined in detail in the bible. The times of the prophets have ended. Jesus promised us the Holy Spirit, who would guide us, He never promised us another prophet who as a prolific writer would write x-times more stuff than found in the whole bible.
In fact it can be pretty dangerous to follow a prophet as these can lead many astray...
Question: Some people might have faith in the mormon prophets, their lifes had been changed, they 'seem' to follow Jesus, isnt it wonderful, yet no true SDA would accept those prophets right? why is that?