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The Oscars and Forgiveness

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They tried to cancel Ellen,
because people on her staff did something wrong.
Guilt by association, who’s next Kevin Bacon?
The controversy around Ellen happen way after she hosted the Oscars. And While this might be hard to believe, since Ellen executive produces her show, she is responsible for the behavior of her employees. And of course people are going to be upset if somebody who's whole shtick is based around being kind and nice (I don't get it personally. A lot of the stuff she does seems down right mean imo) runs a workplace that is anything but.
 
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The controversy around Ellen happen way after she hosted the Oscars. And While this might be hard to believe, since Ellen executive produces her show, she is responsible for the behavior of her employees. And of course people are going to be upset if somebody who's whole shtick is based around being kind and nice (I don't get it personally. A lot of the stuff she does seems down right mean imo) runs a workplace that is anything but.
Who should host the Oscars?
 
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Yes.
People watch the show to see a funny host.

Without a host, less and less people will watch the show.
Winning an Oscar will slowly become worthless.
Yet the year they first stopped having a host, numbers went up.
 
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People wanted to see the train wreck.
But the novelty has worn off.

The ratings were down the next 2 years with no host.

Because you think people are too afraid to host the Oscars.

What you haven't done is link these two things together in any coherent and fact-based way.

If you had a lot of celebrities saying they are afraid to host the Oscars because Kevin Hart wasn't allowed to host one year, you'd have something.

All you are offering is your own speculation.

You're irrational fear of "cancel culture" is just that, irrational. The thing you have a problem with seems to be people being held accountable.

The right to free speech is not the right to face no criticism, backlash, or consequences for that speech.

If you come into my place of business and act crass, rude, and start yelling obscenities I'm going to kick you out and not let you return. That's not "cancel culture", that's you facing the consequences of what you've done.

I wasn't aware that personal responsibility for one's words and actions was such a controversial idea these days.

-CryptoLutheran
 
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Because you think people are too afraid to host the Oscars.

What you haven't done is link these two things together in any coherent and fact-based way.

If you had a lot of celebrities saying they are afraid to host the Oscars because Kevin Hart wasn't allowed to host one year, you'd have something.

All you are offering is your own speculation.

You're irrational fear of "cancel culture" is just that, irrational. The thing you have a problem with seems to be people being held accountable.

The right to free speech is not the right to face no criticism, backlash, or consequences for that speech.

If you come into my place of business and act crass, rude, and start yelling obscenities I'm going to kick you out and not let you return. That's not "cancel culture", that's you facing the consequences of what you've done.

I wasn't aware that personal responsibility for one's words and actions was such a controversial idea these days.

-CryptoLutheran

To get high enough ratings,
the host of the Oscars should be a comedian.
All comedians make bad jokes,
it’s part of the process.
To get to the jokes that are diamonds,
you need go through many jokes that are junk.
Most comedians don’t even know what jokes they were telling
10 years ago.
Why would you hold a comedian to a higher standard than a politician?

A comedians only job is to tell the truth and make you laugh.
 
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To get high enough ratings,
the host of the Oscars should be a comedian.
All comedians make bad jokes,
it’s part of the process.
To get to the jokes that are diamonds,
you need go through many jokes that are junk.
Most comedians don’t even know what jokes they were telling
10 years ago.
Why would you hold a comedian to a higher standard than a politician?

A comedians only job is to tell the truth and make you laugh.
You're missing the crux of the issue though. Kevin Hart was given an opportunity to apologize for the jokes and keep the gig. He refused, which implies that he still thought jokes about beating somebody for being gay was funny.
 
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You're missing the crux of the issue though. Kevin Hart was given an opportunity to apologize for the jokes and keep the gig. He refused, which implies that he still thought jokes about beating somebody for being gay was funny.
He refused to apologize,
because he already apologized in the past.
He doesn’t want to keep apologizing for the rest of his life.

They tell men to talk about their feelings more.
Do they really mean that?
 
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He refused to apologize,
because he already apologized in the past.
He doesn’t want to keep apologizing for the rest of his life.

They tell men to talk about their feelings more.
Do they really mean that?
When has he apologized for it?
 
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To get high enough ratings,
the host of the Oscars should be a comedian.
All comedians make bad jokes,
it’s part of the process.
To get to the jokes that are diamonds,
you need go through many jokes that are junk.
Most comedians don’t even know what jokes they were telling
10 years ago.
Why would you hold a comedian to a higher standard than a politician?

A comedians only job is to tell the truth and make you laugh.

And what does that have to do with anything?

-CryptoLutheran
 
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And what does that have to do with anything?

-CryptoLutheran
Comedians don’t remember every joke they ever told.
They wouldn’t remember if they told a bad joke 10 years ago.

How would the next host of the Oscars
even know if they could pass Twitter’s test?
 
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