I'm hoping GordRedeemed rejoins the Reformed Borg.
The more Reformed I become, the better I deal with life's daily challenges. When I make a bad financial decision, I know God ordained it. If someone is really bothering me, I know God is working it for good somehow. It really gives me a much more positive outlook on life.
I cannot speak for the reprobate on that one.
Also, I have recently become increasingly distrustful of my own reason. When you start realizing just how deceitful the heart is and how ignorant we are, you really start realizing how much in God's good graces you are and it makes you realize that if you are wrong on your faith, you are liable to punishment for one's sin.
Luke 18 says:
Then He took the twelve aside and said to them, “Behold, we are going up to Jerusalem, and all things which are written through the prophets about the Son of Man will be accomplished. For He will be handed over to the Gentiles, and will be mocked and mistreated and spit upon, 33 and after they have scourged Him, they will kill Him; and the third day He will rise again.” But the disciples understood none of these things, and the meaning of this statement was hidden from them, and they did not comprehend the things that were said.
Now that is really scary. We cannot trust out own minds to understand the simplest of statements. So, it merely ups the ante. It shows how gracious God has been to us in opening our eyes...or how blind we are if God forbid we are not understanding God at His word as we ought.