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True love waits in haunted attics
To be fair, as someone with a mental disorder, there is a big push in psychology to eliminate the concept of a "good order." Mental disease is different because of biological or chemical differences. Mental disorder is the lack of those differences but, yet, a markedly different outlook and rationality from the "norm." That is to say that there is some sort of normal thought process which, if you compare genders in this regard, you realize that there clearly is no normal thought process or rationality.
Robert Sapolsky said there could easily be a day when everyone has a "disorder" given that each person has some type of idiosyncrasy, etc., that sets them apart from the "norm". Until then, I like distinguishing the biology from the person, and try my hardest to turn the "disorder" into a sign of strength: you're walking around with a 100 pound weight whereas others aren't (in regard to this specific area, e.g., anxiety, depression, etc.); you can't control what's been given to you (your earlier experiences, your biology or facticity), but you deserve credit for how you're handling it, and if this means you're getting out of bed rather than staying in it all day because of depression, you pushed against your 100 pound weight when everyone else has it easy. You've worked harder for life.
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