Hello, Christian family. I am a young adult who has made a really hard decision for the Lord in the past week. I was in a relationship with a truly amazing man for almost two years (and I've know him for three years). He treated me like a princess, made my life so much more lively, and helped me while I was going through serious depression. I could not find a flaw with him, except he would not accept Jesus as his personal Lord and savior. We were serious, and we were considering marriage after completion of our degrees. He would have made a lovely husband and father, and we loved and respected each other so much. However, we could not agree on our faiths. I prayed, sought the Word for wisdom, and talked to Godly people about the matter. Consequently, I decided to separate from him. The reason why I am posting this is because I am requesting prayers for peace for both of us and that God will draw him near. In this, I lost my best friend, my partner, and an amazing helper. Yet, I am learning how to trust God and how to make wise, unselfish decisions. Please keep us in your prayers. Thank you, and God bless you.
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The Hardest Decision
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RobertMerton
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You have made a good decision.
Wait on the Lord, and he will give you strength.
My prayers are with you.
Wait on the Lord, and he will give you strength.
My prayers are with you.
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This exact thing happened to me before. I was in a 3+ year relationship, he came to God but wanted to live in the world. I was and am determined to marry a true Christian man so I left him. As soon as I left he plunged head first into the lifestyle of the world, and has no regards for Jesus.
You are doing the right thing. You are avoiding future misfortunes and pain. God will provide sweety. Focus on yourself for now and when you are ready to date make sure that you are equally yolked.
Praying for you.
You are doing the right thing. You are avoiding future misfortunes and pain. God will provide sweety. Focus on yourself for now and when you are ready to date make sure that you are equally yolked.
Praying for you.
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