Mortal sin can result from a momentary lapse of judgement. Mortal sin is really, really easy.
Sure, Ill give you that.
Thanks to Original Sin, yeah, that's kinda it. Jesus said so, too, "no one can come to Me unless the Father draw him" (John 6:65).
How about John 12:32?
I said this a while back: there are people who
envision everyone as a beautiful, unique snowflake; just that's far from the truth.
We've got rapists, murders, adulterers, assaulters, blasphemers, heretics, liars, sadists, people motivated by greed, people who are too materialistic, people who only care for themselves, people who don't help their fellow man, racists, bigots, xenophobia, promiscuity, addicts, hypocrites, the slothful, the wrathful, war seekers, the suicidal, the genocidal, persecution, vanity, abortionists, lust, divorce, envy, euthanasia, scandals, using fear, using force, mockers, gossipers.
I have no problems saying there are exceptions to the rule...but on the flip side, I also have no problems saying that there are people who prefer to follow their lives as they see fit without one iota of care for their soul or what it can lead to for others around them.
I also believe if God can throw a bone towards those who were once pagan or just overall unchristian, who exuded brutality and mayhem and have them become saints of the Church, I truly believe you have to work at it into not getting into Heaven.