Hi, I'm not familiar with what DARE teaches kids, but know of the program.
A parent tells a child not to run in the street as they may get hit. (scare tactic)
Drugs can ruin a persons life.
Alchohol can ruin a persons life.
Smoking cigarettes can ruin a persons life.
Kids do not know what we know as adults, and so to tell them bad things result from the use of drugs is just teaching them the truth.
Blessings,
tapero
I don't disagree that these things are bad, but I do think kids in 6th grade are old enough to get real information instead of just the scare tactics.
The things is -- kids know drugs are "bad" and "dangerous." To some, that alone is enough to make it appealing. To many it's not enough to be a deterrent.
Instead of wasting money on cops coming to schools and telling kids how our lives will be
over the second we start taking drugs (and by then, most of us know that's not true -- maybe not from personal experience, but from older siblings, cousins, parents, etc.), why not spend some money on after school programs and counseling? If the kids are busy in somewhat structured and monitored (but not overly so) activities, they're not going to have as much time to do drugs, nor as much inclination if they're enjoying the activities.
And if kids have access to counseling, then maybe they can learn to deal with stress and pressure in a healthy way.
Instead of scare tactics, kids could be taught what classifies dependence -- physical or psychological -- so they can get help before the addiction is full-blown. They could be taught the actual effects of each drug instead of the "this will ruin your life" message for everything from pot to heroin. I don't think anyone would realistically compare the two, yet in the DARE program, they're on equal footing.
I've never done drugs myself, but that had absolutely nothing to do with the DARE program. My grandpa was paralyzed after a stroke caused by smoking. My aunt was in rehab from a cocaine addiction. I was well aware of what could happen. I was also well aware that those things don't always happen as there were other addicts in my family as well who hid it better and were able to recover before hitting rock bottom. Addiction was a risk I wasn't willing to take, knowing that my family is full of addictive personalities.
I found the DARE program to be an insult to my intelligence and to be largely inaccurate and dishonest. I think they have the best of intentions, but that it doesn't work.