2 Samuel 13:
The curse continues.
David's son Amnon lusts after his sister from another mother, Tamar. And he concocts a plan, and is encouraged with his plan by the dastardly Jonadab his "friend"(with friends like this, who needs enemies?) So they come up with a slithery plan to get Tamar to come to Amnon's abode, in his room, and even got David their father involved in this despicable loathesome plan. And can you BELIEVE it??!!! David AGREES to it!
HelLOOOOO David, have you done lost your MIND, AGAIN???!!!
So David TELLS Tamar to go to Amnon's room and fix him something to eat. And she obeys her father.
Right then and there, David should've seen all KINDS of red flags.
So Tamar obeys her father, goes to Amnon's room, and what does he do? He RAPES Tamar, his sister. Then AFTER he RAPES her he DESPISES her, casting her off like a used up rag or piece of used tissue.
"Then Amnon hated her exceedingly; so that the hatred wherewith he hated her
was greater than the love wherewith he had loved her. And Amnon said unto her, Arise, be gone." ~2 Sam 13:15
The bottom line is that he never "loved" her from the gitgo. He destroyed her life by "force" and then threw her to the wolves, so to speak.
What a piece o' work.
"And she said unto him, There is no cause: this evil in sending me away is greater than the other that thou didst unto me. But he would not hearken unto her. Then he called his servant that ministered unto him, and said, Put now this woman out from me, and bolt the door after her." ~2 Sam 13:16-17
So she, cast aside after her utter ruination, cannot wear the garb of a virgin any longer, but goes in mourning putting ashes on her head, and sought refuge in her brother Absalom's house amidst grievous weeping.
Absalom, upon finding out what Amnon did to Tamar, was outraged. And David upon hearing of it is "very wroth", yet he, the father, did NOTHING.
No WONDER Absalom was outraged with not only Amnon, but also with his father David.
The bottom line is that David was an abominable father.
Absalom plotted the death of Amnon, and had him killed.
Consequently he had to flee.
"Whoso rewardeth evil for good, evil shall not depart from his house." ~Pr 17:13