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The best ONE question to get to know someone?

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"What do you want to do with your life?"

There was an old man in Whiting, IN, who asked me this question. I talked with him for maybe three minutes. But in that one question, I had to re-examine myself, and my response to what otherwise would've been small talk, suddenly became a conversation about my deepest desires...more specifically, it became a conversation about the kind of person I wanted to be.

Looking back in it, a few years later, I've come to see this question as the best way I know of to get to know someone deeply, in one question. But as much as it pains me to admit such a thing...my knowledge can be limited. :eek: "The best way I know of" isn't always the best way.

So I propose the above question as my contribution to the conversation...but I want to ask all ye strangers on the Internet: What do you think is the best 1 question to get to know someone?
 

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What do you think is the best 1 question to get to know someone?

Currently here in 2024 America?

I think the most important question to have answered, directly or indirectly, is: "Do you vote Democrat or Republican?"

Once that question is answered, one knows better who they are talking to and how to adjust the conversation.
 
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I think the most important question to have answered, directly or indirectly, is: "Do you vote Democrat or Republican?"

Once that question is answered, one knows better who they are talking to and how to adjust the conversation.
Not everyone supports the two major parties, so a better question to ask would be this: "What problems do you see in 21st century society that need to be fixed?"
 
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Not everyone supports the two major parties, so a better question to ask would be this: "What problems do you see in 21st century society that need to be fixed?"

I can understand why you would think your question is better, but I like mine ... as my question! :blush:

If a person doesn't vote Democrat or Republican, they can just say so, and that is a very 'telling' answer also.
 
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I can understand why you would think your question is better, but I like mine ... as my question! :blush:

If a person doesn't vote Democrat or Republican, they can just say so, and that is a very 'telling' answer also.
Yep, it is your question. You have freedom to ask whatever you want, but just know, some would get offended.
 
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Yep, it is your question. You have freedom to ask whatever you want, but just know, some would get offended.
Some will always get offended ...
can't worry about that all the time!
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I think the most important question to have answered, directly or indirectly, is: "Do you vote Democrat or Republican?"

Once that question is answered, one knows better who they are talking to and how to adjust the conversation.
None....I don't live in the USA
 
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