does anyone else ever wonder if they'll ever find that "someone"? i mean, im only 19, so i shouldnt be worried about this stuff yet, but the past few guys i've been out with may have believed in God, but certainly were not christians. that's another problem i have, im always attracted to the guys God probably would rather have me not be with...does anyone else know what im saying here?
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that special "someone"
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I have the same problem christianpunkett916. From my experience, all the guys that seem to say they're christian don't walk the walk. Who knows maybe it's God's will that we never be married. Nowhere in the bible does He promise He's got a soulmate here on earth for us. From what I've seen so far, I think I could grow much stronger in the Lord without the distraction of a guy. Of course, I'd still like to share my life and faith with someone but if that someone remains to be Jesus alone.. I'll take it!
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LionOfJudah
Seeking after God's heart
i think that is why they have these forums
Just kidding.
Yes it is both hard for girls and guys to find someone who is seeking after Gods face, and trying to grow in that relationship, it has been my experience that most girls that i meet that are, are already married or spoken for
LOL
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Try finding a girl who is interested in a fundamentalist apocalyptic pro-Israeli Christian guy, who also likes dance parties, the beach, travelling and going to the gym, i'm seen as too worldy by Christian girls, and too Churchy by worldly girls..... and thats before i've even considered what i'm after..... attractive, vivacious, fun, soft hearted, smart but also solid Christian and pro-Israel
gosh!!!!!!!!
Try finding a girl who is interested in a fundamentalist apocalyptic pro-Israeli Christian guy, who also likes dance parties, the beach, travelling and going to the gym, i'm seen as too worldy by Christian girls, and too Churchy by worldly girls..... and thats before i've even considered what i'm after..... attractive, vivacious, fun, soft hearted, smart but also solid Christian and pro-Israel
gosh!!!!!!!!
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I 'found' her when I was 17 at which point I decided to marry her which I did when we were 18. Its a matter of choice, free will from both parties, and a little divine intervention.
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Raanan
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To wordly? Just from liking dance parties, the beach, travelling, and going to the gym? Please tell me there's more to it then that 'cause if that's all then I'm satan incarnate...Paul 888 said:
Desi, you're my hero. I'ld be jealous but it would be sinful jealousy and I've grown immensly from the time I was 18 so I'm actually quite thankful I haven't 'found her' yet. Still, you're my herodesi said:
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Don't rush it girl. I can promise you this. Before you go to college and after you graduate you will be looking for a totally different type of guy. My tastes have changed so much from the time i was 18 to 22.
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Hey. Yeah, I'm only 16, and I do wonder about that, all the time actually. I wonder, who will it be? Do I know them know? Will it last? You know, stuff like that. I mean, I'm not totally OBSESSING over it or anything, I just wonder. And I really hope that I meet them at a younger age than like 25 or something, you know?
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You flatter me. God and wisdom are the only things I have going for me. If you saw me and my wife you'd see J Lo and George from Seinfeld and you'd think WfF? The key, which most Christians don't utilitze, is wisdom. There is a science to love which is called fastseduction, and many other names. To use this wisdom in concert with God's guidance is to be like David, the world at your fingertips and temptation at your heels, with God looking on.Raanan said:Desi, you're my hero. I'ld be jealous but it would be sinful jealousy and I've grown immensly from the time I was 18 so I'm actually quite thankful I haven't 'found her' yet. Still, you're my hero
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Tuffguy said:
Absolutely. Had I married the type of guy I thought I should when I was 18, I'd be miserable today. There's a HUGE gap between 18 and 22 where you find out so much about yourself and what you need and want, and also what you have to give to someone else, what kind of personality and gifts best complement yours, what your life dreams and goals are, etc. There's so much. So don't be in a rush.
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