Hello again WarriorAngel, I agree that "in that day" could be understood as such in 2 Timothy 1:18, however, if true, I believe that this would be the only time in the Bible that it would be (the other times "that day" is used refer to things like the future Judgments (Great White Throne and Bema Seat, the second coming of the Lord, a day in the future, on this side of the grave, when a believer will face persecutions of various sorts, etc.).
The Apostle, in fact, uses the phrase when speaking about himself just a few verses prior (2 Timothy 1:12) and he is obviously alive when he does so (if you'd like, I can give you a list of all of Scriptural "that day" references so you can check them out for yourself
).
This, as I just mentioned, could be the correct understanding.
However, I believe that the principal problem with that interpretation is this, 1. the fact that both church tradition and history speak of the martyrdom of St. Onesiphorus (along with others like St. Timothy) as something that happened under the rule of Emperor Domitian (the last member of the Flavian Dynasty to rule Rome, just FYI .. he reigned from 81-96 AD) and 2. that the Apostle Paul was beheaded by Nero in 67 AD.
Here's an article that you may find useful in regard to all of this.
St. Onesiphorus—An Obscure, Yet Worthy New Testament Saint
Tradition tells that Onesiphorus was brutally martyred under the tyrannical reign of Emperor Domitian.
Apollo, Cephas, Tychicus, Epaphroditus, Cæsar and Onesiphorus
May the Lord grant mercy to the family of Onesiphorus because he often gave me new heart and was not ashamed of my chains. But when he came to Rome, he promptly searched for me and found me. May the Lord grant him to find mercy from the Lord on that day. And you know very well the services he rendered in Ephesus. ―2 Timothy 1:16–18
St. Onesiphorus’s name is found in only one book of the Bible ― the Second Letter to Timothy. It is believed that Paul wrote this letter while a prisoner in Rome and that Timothy received it in Ephesus, the same city where Onesiphorus (ON-eh-SIPH-er-us) and his family lived. Within this letter, Onesiphorus’s name is found twice. These references indicate a sense of past tense and offer greetings for the family of Onesiphorus rather than for Onesiphorus himself.
These curiosities have led many biblical scholars to guess that perhaps this Ephesian saint was already deceased at the time Paul wrote his letter. Paul’s words found in 2 Timothy 1:18, “May the Lord grant him to find mercy from the Lord on that day,” are intriguing. If indeed Onesiphorus was deceased at the time of the writing, then this could possibly be considered one of the earliest prayers for the dead in Christendom.
Onesiphorus was evidently someone dear to Paul’s heart. Paul’s words make it clear that Onesiphorus was encouraging in his efforts and fearless of Paul’s state of imprisonment. While many others anxiously ran away in apprehension, Onesiphorus remained a true friend through Christ. Paul also pointed out how Onesiphorus did much in Ephesus to support and fortify the early Church there. It is reasonable to assume that this somewhat hidden man’s efforts rippled far and wide in unknown ways to benefit Christianity.
Tradition tells that Onesiphorus was brutally martyred under the tyrannical reign of Emperor Domitian. It is said that he was tied to a wild horse near the Hellespont (the strait of water separating Europe from Asia, now known as the Dardanelles) and then violently dragged to death. A comrade of his, Porphyrius, is believed to have been martyred at the same time. Onesiphorus is also mentioned in an apocryphal book known as Acts of Paul and Thecla.
Interestingly, this article mentions both church tradition, as well the conjecture of some church scholars concerning the death of Onesiphorus, but, what church tradition tells us on the one hand, and what the conjecture of certain church scholars tells us on the other, cannot both be true in this case, because history & church tradition puts the martyrdom of the Apostle Paul as something that happened more than a decade before St. Onesiphorus' martyrdom.
There is also the fact that official church documents, like the CCC, that speak of prayers to/for the dead as a normal church practice, never mention Onesiphorus/2 Timothy 1:18 as Biblical proof in support of the practice.
God bless you!!
--David
Well you cannot debate in OBOB.
For do not suppose
Paul the combatant, that irresistible and invincible one, but some one of the many, who, if he had not received much consolation and encouragement, would not perhaps have stood, would not have contended. So those who are out of the contest may perchance be the
cause of victory to him, who is engaged in it, and may be partakers of the crowns reserved for the victor. And what wonder, if he who communicates to the living is thought worthy of the same rewards with those who contend,
since it is possible to communicate after death even with the departed, with those who are asleep, who are already crowned, who want for nothing. For hear Paul saying, Partaking in the memories of the Saints. And how may this be done? When you admire a
man, buildest his monument.}}--> when you do any of those acts for which he was crowned, you are evidently a sharer in his labors, and in his crowns.
The Lord grant unto him that he may find mercy of the Lord in that day. He had compassion on me, he says, he shall therefore have the like return in that terrible Day, when we shall have need of much mercy. The Lord grant him to find mercy from the Lord. Are there two Lords then? By no means. But to us there is one Lord Christ Jesus, and one God.
1 Corinthians 8:6 Here those who are infected with the
heresy of
Marcion assail this expression; but let them learn that this mode of speech is not uncommon in Scripture; as when it is said, The Lord said to my Lord
Psalm 110:1; and again, I said to the Lord, You are my Lord
Psalm 16:2; and, The Lord rained fire from the Lord.
Genesis 19:24 This indicates that the Persons are of the same substance, not that there is a distinction of nature. For we are not to understand that there are two substances differing from each other, but two Persons, each being of the same substance.
Observe too, that he says, The Lord grant him mercy. For as he himself had obtained mercy from Onesiphorus, so he wished him to obtain the same from
God. Moral. And if Onesiphorus, who exposed himself to danger, is saved by mercy, much more are we also saved by the same. For terrible indeed, terrible is that account, and such as needs great
love for
mankind, that we may not hear that awful sentence, Depart from me...I never
knew you, you that work iniquity
Matthew 7:23; or that fearful word, Depart, you cursed, into
everlasting fire, prepared for the
devil and his
angels Matthew 25:40: that we may not hear, Between us and you there is a great gulf fixed
Luke 16:16: that we may not hear that voice full of horror, Take him away, and cast him into outer darkness: that we may not hear those words full of terror, Thou
wicked and
slothful servant.
Matthew 22:13 and
25:26 For awful
truly and terrible is that tribunal. And yet God is gracious and merciful. He is called a God of mercies and a God of comfort
2 Corinthians 1:3; good as none else is
good, and kind, and gentle, and full of pity,
Who wills not the death of a sinner, but that he should be converted and live. Ezekiel 18:24; 33:11 Whence then, whence is that Day so full of agony and anguish? A stream of fire is rolling before His face. The books of our deeds are opened. The day itself is burning as an oven, the angels are flying around, and many furnaces are prepared. How then is He good and merciful, and full of lovingkindness to man? Even herein is He merciful, and He shows in these things the greatness of His lovingkindness. For He holds forth to us these terrors, that being constrained by them, we may be awakened to the desire of the kingdom.
St Chrysostom
Born 347 AD - died 407 AD
A Bishop of the Church was explaining Saints and those who passed and used
Per ST Paul referring to his friend,
Onesiphorus.
St Chrysostom, understanding the teachings kept in the Church spoke of purgatory and again - St Paul's friend.
St Paul's prayer for his friend.