Temperaments are VERY diffenerent...

[BlackCat]

Hello my Christian Friends!

I have got just been offended very rudely at my forum, thanks GOD, not in open forum but via PM.

One person, a Russian boy, behaves like a 13 years old boy asks me to date him. I said "I;ll think about it and tell you on Friday", he said "OK." So, today we had a talk where i told him I'm not in a mood to go in the city center, to get cold there and to travel one more day by MOSCOW AWFUL metro. He asked me about the alternativity. I said he may have come to my place just to meet each other (at 1st time only!) and to walk in the park. At 1st he agreed to come but in 2-3 PMs he asked me to meet "at a neuthral territory" - a metro station. Well, I said NO (to know why look the upper text of the message). Then he became shouting at me (PM-shout) and insulting very rudely! I was just very surprised of his behavour:"You offended me! You **********************...!" I won't say this here. :o And after this he posted some rudeness in the open forums and about US IN THE OPEN FORUMS!!! How dares he showing private things to the others??? I became nad about him but decided to give him another chance. The other moment he (thanks to the Censoring I have installed in time) you know what happened in open forums. I solved this problem by banning him. Am I right?

I think all users of my boards are treasure to me! And now I feel depressed..

PS During our talk I haven't said ANY rudethings to him.

Black Cat

 

[Moros]

Yeah, Russian men are very tempermental. But you devotchkas have your moments too. Give him time to sober up or find a nice westerner.

 

[BlackCat]

Well, now I have an "e-mail" maeesage sesion with him and he asks me to make him unbanned. But his speech makes me insane, really and I can't stand it that much to censore every new variant of words...

 

[Cerberus~]

Listen, the dude is a jerk. You made the right call by banning him from the site, now ban him from your email and be done with it.

You can't get depressed everytime someone acts a fool.

 

[gwenmead]

Fwiw this guy would not have had a second chance with me.

That level of immaturity and that level of rudeness, he's out. I think you did exactly the right thing.

Cut him off. You don't want him to end up stalking you, for Pete's sake.

 

[Helo]

Agreed, if a guy's going to act like an idiot, he's not worth wasting time over.

Personally I find Russian women to be EXTREMELY attractive...*ahem* Sorry..just...thought...Id mention that.....

 

[BlackCat]

Listen, the dude is a jerk. You made the right call by banning him from the site, now ban him from your email and be done with it.

You can't get depressed everytime someone acts a fool.

Fwiw this guy would not have had a second chance with me.

That level of immaturity and that level of rudeness, he's out. I think you did exactly the right thing.

Cut him off. You don't want him to end up stalking you, for Pete's sake.

I won't give him another chance, OK. But I can't remove him from my e-mail.. You know, Yahoo determines the person who sends no matter what

Agreed, if a guy's going to act like an idiot, he's not worth wasting time over.

Personally I find Russian women to be EXTREMELY attractive...*ahem* Sorry..just...thought...Id mention that.....

Thank you