alistair said:
Does anyone know how to tame a budgie.Its a female and im able to put my hand up to it without it flying away.And does anyone know if its normal for a new budgie to not eat and chirp much when its brought into a new environment
It's normal for your bird to be quiet for a few days - you've just turned her life upside down. In time, be it a few days or a few weeks, if your bird is healthy and happy more sound than two birds create should pop out. However, I'm sure she's eating as it takes barely 24 hours for small, young parrots to lose more than half of their body weight. If your bird is eating seed the hulls may very well just give the appearance of being untouched. Small beaks can pop the shells and remove the edible portion effortlessly without even a scratch to the seed. Many owners unknowingly starve their little feathered friends because of this. Seed needs to be changed twice daily, even if you don't think it's been eaten.
As for taming, countrywoman is right on.
One quick warning: bear with your little bird if you got him/her from a pet store, not a breeder

or a rescue

. Pushing them too fast can result in a fatal panic attack. These creatures are so tiny, and go from being with their close-knit flock to being handled by something new and massive who has no ability to communicate with them. Imagine yourself being picked up and prodded by something whose thumb is the only thing you could rival in height! We can't even picture it. Not only that, many parrots' from pet stores first experience is to have their only means of survival destroyed ... their wings get clipped! These birds of prey have their instinct to flee in full force, and nothing's been done to offset the idea that you're going to harm them. You need to give your bird two or more weeks to just watch you and observe you in your home. Spend a few hours quietly talking to her through the bars of the cage, but don't open her door for anything more than feeding/watering purposes during this time. After a few weeks, if your bird is on a proper diet of pellets, fresh fruits and veggies, etc., then a really helpful thing to do is offer some millet from your hand. Budgies need several hours (no less than four, preferably more) of attention a day to feel safe and comfortable. Allow your bird time to play on a table stand placed on the floor or the top of her cage placed (temporarily) on the floor in a closed room, making sure all small openings are closed off. Sit on the floor talking with her while keeping your distance. If she flies, just cup your hands around her and return her to her to the stand/cage top. You may end up retrieving her a hundred times, however I find this time out of their cage but without forced contact with you makes the taming process of an untamed small parrot nearly twice as fast for the average bird. Remember, consistency is key!
A parakeet is no lesser of a commitment than a great big Macaw. The lower price just means they are easier for man to breed, nothing more. Good luck!
Blessings,
awashinlove