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The Cause
The Cause of reprobation does not lie in anything outside of God, not even in sin, but in Gods absolute sovereignty. (For the children being not yet born, neither having done good or evil, that the purpose of God according to election might stand, not of works, but of Him that calleth It was said unto her, The elder shall serve the younger. Therefore hath He mercy on whom He will have mercy, and whom He will He hardeneth. Nay but, 0 man, who art thou that repliest against God? Shall the thing formed say to him that formed it, Why hast thou made me thus? Hath not the potter power over the clay, of the same lump to make one vessel unto honor, and another unto dishonor? (Rom. 9:11,12,18,20,21)
Righteous punishment certainly follows sin, but the reason why God determined to be glorified in exercising His righteousness does not lie in sin, but in Gods sovereignty.
Sin is the
meriting cause of punishment. The determining cause of the state of reprobation is the
sovereignty of God. Thus reprobation is the independent decree of God from eternity, the sovereign, the decreeing God Himself. It is an act of the Fathers good pleasure. Even so, Father: for so it seemed good in Thy sight. (Matt. 11:26)
Sin, unbelief, hardness, and whatever else is mentioned as a reason for the righteous judgment of God, all follows the decree of God, and is
not the cause of the decree. God is sovereign in election, but also in rejection. Both depend on nothing but Gods sovereign pleasure, and, being Gods decree they cannot be dependent upon some one or some thing outside of God. The LORD hath made all things for Himself: yea, even the wicked for the day of evil. (Prov. 16:4)
If sin were the cause of reprobation, then God would be dependent upon mans actions in His decrees. Moreover, then all men would be reprobated, because all have sinned.
Not general. As election is not general, neither is reprobation. There are no general decrees. Gods decrees are limited, also the decree of predestination. It concerns certain people, known to God by name. Neither then is reprobation a general decree, in which God only would have determined to condemn the unbelievers and the wicked, without having predestinated the individual persons.
That is the doctrine of the Pelagians and Arminians. But such a general decree would not be a decree. Exercising Gods righteousness to the condemnation of the wicked needs no separate decree for it flows from His holy Essence, which is perfectly righteous. Thus the Scriptures say very emphatically that God did not decree to elect and reject in general, but that He hated Esau and loved Jacob. (Rom. 9:11,18,20-22)
Pharaoh is also a proof of this: For the Scripture saith unto Pharaoh, Even for this same purpose have I raised thee up, that I might show My power in thee, and that My Name might be declared throughout all the earth. (Rom. 9:17)
Judas went to his own place. (Acts 1:25) This place was determined by God. The reprobate, being persons known by God, are not written in the book of life (Rev. 13:8), are not Christs sheep (John 10:26), are appointed to disobedience (I Pet. 2:8), and were before ordained to condemnation. (Jude 4)
Reprobation took place to the glorification of God, especially of His sovereignty and righteousness. God has no desire in the death of sinners in itself. The Lord confirms it with an oath to those who by grace turn to Him. But God does have a desire for the glorification of His perfections. He is the Potter, Who according to His eternal good pleasure, makes from the same lump of clay one vessel to honor, and another unto dishonor. To that end God not only decided to create, but also to form the wicked unto the day of evil; allowing sin, and righteously condemning him who commits the sin. (Rom. 9:18) For this cause God shall send them strong delusion, that they should believe a lie: that they all might be damned who believed not the truth, but had pleasure in unrighteousness. (II Thess. 2:11,12)
Condemnation is to be distinguished from reprobation. Condemnation is an act of Gods righteousness, and reprobation is an act of His Sovereignty. Reprobation precedes sin, and does not happen because of it, but condemnation follows sin, and is its righteous reward.
The means. The decree of reprobation also determined the means by which it would be fulfilled. These means, however, are not the cause of reprobation, for they do not precede the decree, but follow upon it. These means include allowing the fall along with the resulting
blindness: And He said, Go, and tell this people, Hear ye indeed, but understand not; and see ye indeed, but perceive not, (Isa. 6:9); hardness: Therefore they could not believe, because Esaias said again, He hath blinded their eyes, and hardened their heart; that they should not see with their eyes, nor understand with their heart, and be converted, and I should heal them, (John 12:39,40); and disobedience: Disobedient, whereunto they were also appointed. (I Peter 2:8)
How clearly Scripture shows in all these places that blindness, hardness, and disobedience came according to the determinate counsel of God. Unless God glorifies His grace in mans heart, he hardens himself in sin. Although the guilt of that hardening lies with man, nevertheless, the Divine reprobation is executed by it. Scripture then also speaks in the texts quoted above in both a positive manner of blinding and hardening, and in a negative manner, as of not enlightening, not showing mercy, and not giving grace. The reprobate are
not savingly called (Matt. 20:16); their sins are not forgiven (John 20:23); faith is
not given them (Acts 13:46). This is not to be understood in such a sense as if God would work the blinding and hardening Himself, nor as if He would merely allow sin and then wait to see what man would omit or commit, but according to His sovereign will He gives the reprobate over to his own blindness and hardness, and to the deception of Satan. (Romans 9:7-18; I Pet. 2:8) Thus man works out his own judgment to which he was appointed. The hardening in unbelief and the impenitence and withholding of saving grace belong to the means God has determined to use in performing His reprobation. (Jude 4) I thank Thee, O Father, Lord of heaven and earth, because Thou hast hid these things from the wise and prudent, and hast revealed them unto babes. Even so, Father, for so it seemed good in Thy sight. (Matt. 11:26,27)
In these words Christ thanks His Father for election and rejection. Therefore speak I to them in parables: because they seeing see not; and hearing they hear not, neither do they understand. (Matt. 13:13) It is remarkable that the Lord does not say
so that but
because seeing they see not. Therefore He spoke in parables which He explained only to His disciples. John 8:47 and 10:26 mean the same thing: He that is of God heareth Gods words: ye therefore hear them not, because ye are not of God. But ye believe not, because ye are not of My sheep as I said unto you.
The means mentioned both in a positive and negative manner lie under the direct determination and ruling of Gods will and serve to perform His reprobation. It is certain that the reprobate are disobedient and shall not see life (John 3:36), because reprobation is
unchangeable. The number of reprobates is determined by God as well as their persons. (Rom. 9:11,12) Indeed Scripture teaches us that reprobation comprehends the most people. Enter ye in at the strait gate: for wide is the gate, and broad is the way, that leadeth to destruction, and many there be which go in thereat: Because strait is the gate and narrow is the way which leadeth unto life, and few there be that find it. (Matt. 7:13,14) For many be called, but few chosen. (Matt. 20:16)
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