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Suicidal thoughts

anjelica

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I posted about my depression due to having cancer, but I could not say that after eight months of being bedfast, I am having awful suicidal thoughts. I am finding this so difficult to deal with. I am in torment a lot of the time and feel that I have reached the bottom of the barrel where strength is concerned. I am having deep problems over God and am sinking fast. I now that no-one can offer advice and that is not what I am seeking. I just need support with this and prayer. I came to this part of the forum because of the deep depression - I am not sure if I should be posting here as well as in the Oncologyh forum. I just so badly need people and help.
 

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Hang in there Anjelica, everything is going to get better for you. I just feel it strongly. You are in my prayers. I have been there mentally many times and just let the thoughts go out of your head and try to forget about them. Maybe think about what things will be like once your treatments are over and you get back on your feet. There may be many good things in store for you.
 
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I have talk to you via PM and I think we should keep doing that. But the depression forum is a great place to come when your feeling down and even having suicidal thoughts. :hug: But please if you are going to ever act on it, PLEASE PLEASE get help!

Here are the hotlines just in case

Crisis Lines - Any Age
America:
National Suicide Prevention Hotline - 1-800-273-TALK
http://www.suicidepreventionlifeline.org/GetHelp/Default.aspx

United Way 211 - http://www.211.org/

Thats if you live in the USA. :)

 
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I am in England,, not America. I ring the hotline here, and their belief is that each person has the right to determine what they do and that includes suicide. They are called the Samaritans and I have phoned them many times but I now have stopped phoning them. In the eyes of Christians I am a sinner because I am full of fear etc. All I know is that I can't do this any more. I can't deal with cancer any more.
 
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