My girlfriend and I have recently gotten in to a bit of...trouble. We both love the Lord very much, but we have gone over the line of what we both feel is acceptable behavior in this area several times, and it seems like every time is a little bit worse. I know that this is not something that God likes, and it has just broken me. I feel awful. I'm worried that I am hardening my heart to this sin and it will keep getting worse. I just don't know what to do. Saturday we did something bad, and the next morning at church I just cried. I would have thought that that would have stopped me, but I was just stupid enough to get in to more trouble last night. It's really not helping my relationship with God.
We both feel that this relationship is heading towards marriage, and I don't want to take something God has given me that could be a wonderful thing and absolutely ruin it with this sort of sin.
It's like no amount of guilt, fear, or shame is going to stop us from continuing to fall in to this trap. I don't know if we are just stupid or what. I keep thinking that maybe if I just loved the Lord more this wouldn't happen. I'm not really sure that's accurate, and I'm not sure how to go about doing that more anyway. To some of you it must seem like a simple decision: just stop. I wish it were that easy. I'm sure some of you must think I'm a pretty awful Christian, or that maybe I'm not one.
I'm sure there are a few of you who have been through this at some point. Would any of you mind giving me some advice? I've asked the Lord to take care of this for me, but I can't help but feeling that if I had really given the Lord control of the situation then this would have stopped by now. I'm not capable of taking care of this on my own, I just don't know how to let God help me (if He even cares enough anymore to help).
We both feel that this relationship is heading towards marriage, and I don't want to take something God has given me that could be a wonderful thing and absolutely ruin it with this sort of sin.
It's like no amount of guilt, fear, or shame is going to stop us from continuing to fall in to this trap. I don't know if we are just stupid or what. I keep thinking that maybe if I just loved the Lord more this wouldn't happen. I'm not really sure that's accurate, and I'm not sure how to go about doing that more anyway. To some of you it must seem like a simple decision: just stop. I wish it were that easy. I'm sure some of you must think I'm a pretty awful Christian, or that maybe I'm not one.
I'm sure there are a few of you who have been through this at some point. Would any of you mind giving me some advice? I've asked the Lord to take care of this for me, but I can't help but feeling that if I had really given the Lord control of the situation then this would have stopped by now. I'm not capable of taking care of this on my own, I just don't know how to let God help me (if He even cares enough anymore to help).