- Jun 19, 2016
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- Country
- United Kingdom
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- Christian
- Marital Status
- Single
Hi my name is Andrew and I’m 20. In the past 3-4 years my life has fallen apart due to my mental health.
When I was growing up I took my christian faith seriously and believed 100% in God, Jesus, bible etc. When I was 15 I was friends with an atheist at my school and he never tried to discourage me or anything but we often debated about Christianity and I usually ended up with lots of questions I didn’t know answers too and I think slowly over time I stopped taking it so seriously, stopped going to church and forgot about it all. 5 years later, whenever I go to church every now and again I look around and no longer feel a connection and cannot feel emotion towards God.
Throughout my teenage years I always found it a bit hard to fit in and never had true friends I felt like I could count on. Even my dad mocked me for having no friends and I kinda believed him. This made me feel lonely and nowadays I’m very shy and find it hard to talk to a lot of people and so I usually end up getting in awkward situations where me and others intentionally ignore each other even though that’s not what I want. I want to be happy and have good friends.
Having a lack of friends made me sad but worse was to come.
Growing up I was always attracted to women and was physically attracted to them a lot but when I was 17 it felt like my feelings towards women stopped very suddenly and I have never since that day felt the way I used to. Now when I see attractive women I get very depressed as I don’t feel as I used to and instead I am afraid because I will forever be lonely. I’m not sure this is the case but the thought does creep into your mind - I also get a lot of anxiety that my sexuality changed and I’ll never be the same. The thought of this makes me so down I sometimes get thoughts about what it would be like if I was not here but there is no escape as I’ll then suffer in hell for eternity.
I feel like I don’t fit in anywhere anymore. People think I’m weird - I probably am. I get very nervous when people talk about women as I cant relate and also because I find it hard to talk to people anyway.
I am lonely and just want a friend and to feel normal again.
Thanks for reading this
When I was growing up I took my christian faith seriously and believed 100% in God, Jesus, bible etc. When I was 15 I was friends with an atheist at my school and he never tried to discourage me or anything but we often debated about Christianity and I usually ended up with lots of questions I didn’t know answers too and I think slowly over time I stopped taking it so seriously, stopped going to church and forgot about it all. 5 years later, whenever I go to church every now and again I look around and no longer feel a connection and cannot feel emotion towards God.
Throughout my teenage years I always found it a bit hard to fit in and never had true friends I felt like I could count on. Even my dad mocked me for having no friends and I kinda believed him. This made me feel lonely and nowadays I’m very shy and find it hard to talk to a lot of people and so I usually end up getting in awkward situations where me and others intentionally ignore each other even though that’s not what I want. I want to be happy and have good friends.
Having a lack of friends made me sad but worse was to come.
Growing up I was always attracted to women and was physically attracted to them a lot but when I was 17 it felt like my feelings towards women stopped very suddenly and I have never since that day felt the way I used to. Now when I see attractive women I get very depressed as I don’t feel as I used to and instead I am afraid because I will forever be lonely. I’m not sure this is the case but the thought does creep into your mind - I also get a lot of anxiety that my sexuality changed and I’ll never be the same. The thought of this makes me so down I sometimes get thoughts about what it would be like if I was not here but there is no escape as I’ll then suffer in hell for eternity.
I feel like I don’t fit in anywhere anymore. People think I’m weird - I probably am. I get very nervous when people talk about women as I cant relate and also because I find it hard to talk to people anyway.
I am lonely and just want a friend and to feel normal again.
Thanks for reading this