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Struggles with Calvinism

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These are questions about what God is responsible for...about what God does with others...about things that are utterly out of your control. If they are troublesome for you, don't bother with them.

But ye, beloved, building up yourselves on your most holy faith, praying in the Holy Ghost,
Keep yourselves in the love of God, looking for the mercy of our Lord Jesus Christ unto eternal life.

Jude 1:20-21

I don't see any command to know all the answers (and I'm one who would love to have them!). But strengthen yourself in the faith and let these other questions fall to the side (whether permanently or temporarily). You will NOT be responsible for knowing God's ways when you come face to face with Him. You WILL be responsible for the good stewardship of what the Lord has entrusted to you. If the Lord has done a work in your heart (and it sounds like He has), then rest in that work and grow in the faith by prayer, reading the Word and fellowshipping with those of like precious faith.
 
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I can see plenty about being saved. That's why Paul said this.
That's not why Paul said it. That's what I'm trying to tell you. In the beginning of the chapter Paul lists things tha pertain to Israel. One of those is the promises. He says the promises are the fathers. That's, Abrahm, Isaac, and Jacob. Then he says it's not as though the word of God is of no effect
Then he says for the promise is. Then he refers to the calling of Issac. God had said that Abraham's seed would be called in Isaac. Not Ishmael. Then he goes on to Jacob and Esau. How God chose Jacob and not Esau. It's still about through whom the seed would come.
 
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Were Jews saved? Were Edomites saved?
 
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It was said God loved Jacob and hated Esau. Boy, do Calvinists love it that God HATES!!

Nothing about saving, just loving and hating.

I see in Calvinism that almost everyone is Esau. But they might be OF THE ELECT.
But how would they know for sure?
If they slipped up at the end and apostacised, Calvinists would just use the "weren't ever saved to begin with card" and -wallah - the Calvinist pat system is intact!
The OP, a brand new Christian, could see this plainly, in describing about her niece.
 
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Eternal Security for THE ELECT - let's all sing BLESSED ASSURANCE!

But the caveat is that anyone of us Jacobs or Esaus is subject at the very end to being cast into the Calvinistic dustbin of "never were saved to begin with" - even if we did the things in Hebrews 6:4-6...

The Calvinistic double reverse, it's Eternal WONDERING about whether one is really Elect.

Paul said he didn't count himself to have "apprehended", but Man, Calvinists have apprehended big time.
 
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It's about election to salvation.
There's nothing there about being elected to salvation. It's about being elected as the people of Abraham that God had promised. In Genesis God made a fourfold promise to Abraham. He promised him that He would make him the father of a great nation, the father of many nations, that all peoples would be blessed through him, and that He would give him all the land that he could see. This is the promised land.
 
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“For he saith to Moses, I will have mercy on whom I will have mercy, and I will have compassion on whom I will have compassion. So then it is not of him that willeth, nor of him that runneth, but of God that sheweth mercy.” Romans 9:15–16 (KJV 1900)
 
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Right! He chose the people of Jacob as His people and not those of Esau. It would be the people of Jacob and not Esau who would be the fulfillment of the promise to Abraham
 
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Right! He chose the people of Jacob as His people and not those of Esau. It would be the people Jacob and not Esau who would be the fulfillment of the promise to Abraham
= salvation or damnation.
 
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