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"Of course I feel it is appropropriate for all people to see the pictures."
But it is not, however, appropriate for high schools to hand out condoms?

"If the four year old happens to see the pix and asks a question, then the parent can explain what an abortion is."

I don't feel a four year old should even know what abortion is. You accuse us of spreading a sick agenda and yet you feel it is completely appropriate to try and explain something so mature as abortion to a toddler? That, in my opinion, is sick that you want to indoctrinate children with such propaganda at a young age, and age where they aren't old enough to grasp the concept of sex, let alone abortion.

Here's an analogy: If I was protesting in support of gay rights, would you be offended if I had a poster of two men engaging in a sexual act for your children to see and just leave you to do the explaining?

"That is the parent's job, to explain things to their children."

Right...at the appropriate time, not when some radical protestor shoves a graphic picture in my child's face. It's pitiful. I have a friend who had to run to a Planned Parenthood to get a refill for her birth control pills. School was out that day and her husband was at work, so she ended up having her five year old with her when she went. As she was going inside, sidewalk protestors rushed to her and begged her to "not murder her baby" and pulled her daughter aside and told her, "please tell your mommy not to murder your baby brother or sister!" Of course, at the time the child was confused and frightened with all of these people shouting things at her and her mother and my friend was infuriated. Now we laugh about the ignorance of those protestors that day who assumed that every woman walking in there was going to have an abortion, not to get birth control or have an affordable PAP smear.

Do you really feel that is helping your cause? Scaring the living daylights out the children you claim to care so much about and hurting the women you claim you're trying to protect from abortion?
 
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So, would you support allowing the protesters inside the abortion clinics to spread their information? That way, the target would get to hear it, and the kids would not have to see it.
 
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So, would you support allowing the protesters inside the abortion clinics to spread their information? That way, the target would get to hear it, and the kids would not have to see it.

No, I would not; in the same way I would not want anti-cosmetic surgery protestors going into medical buildings to yell at women for getting breast implants or anti-homosexuality protestors going into a clinic that treats patients with HIV. I don't have a problem with people sitting on sidewalks praying or handing out information to women who ask for it. They are well within their first amendment rights to do so. Just as I would have the right to stand outside a crisis pregnancy center with abortion information, but I wouldn't stoop to that level because I respect a woman's privacy and the delicate nature of having to make choices regarding her unplanned pregnancy.

I have a problem with the verbal harassment, obscenities yelled at women, gruesome pictures for all eyes to see and blocking clinic entrances. That is when you have crossed the line from making a point to being a disruption to the normal daily functions of a public place.
 
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Electric Sceptic said:
I would think the most obvious way to lower the number of abortions would be to increase sex education and availability of cheap contraceptives. Why are those who oppose abortion never for this option?

I am for that "option" and I oppose abortion.
 
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I would think the most obvious way to lower the number of abortions would be to increase sex education and availability of cheap contraceptives. Why are those who oppose abortion never for this option?

Because, sadly, the majority of people who claim they are pro-life really aren't interested in the sanctity of anyone's life - the unborn, the woman who is facing the pregnancy, the child once he or she is born. The root of the issue is the stigma some people have been taught to place upon human sexuality, that it is a disdainful act - an act that must not go un-punished when someone engages in it outside of their boundaries. It's a control issue. It may seem as if I am painting with a broad brush here, but I truly do not believe I'm too far off base with my assertions. The evidence supporting my wild generalization is glaringly apparent in the typical anti-choice talking points. For example:

"If you're going to have sex you'd better be ready to suffer the consequences."
"If you can spread your legs for sex, you can spread your legs to have a baby."
"If you have sex you must take responsibility for your actions."
"If you don't want kids, don't have sex."
"Don't murder your baby just because you were stupid and had sex."
"Why should the baby pay for your mistakes?"

See the pattern? Rarely ever have I engaged in an abortion debate where a person offers up a solid defense of the pro-life stance using an argument based upon fetal development or preserving human life. It somehow all comes back around to "women being stupid and spreading their legs and not accepting the consequences".

That is why they truly aren't interested in better access to affordable contraceptives, because it gives women even more freedom to "be stupid and have sex" and that takes the control away from them to make the decisions for other women based upon their unhealthy view of sex.
 
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DieHappy said:
Wow, so many high minded insults, so many semantical errors, and so much mis-information in one post!
Example?
DieHappy said:
Wow, so many high minded insults, so many semantical errors, and so much mis-information in one post!
Example?
DieHappy said:
Wow, so many high minded insults, so many semantical errors, and so much mis-information in one post!
Example?
I listed my references at the end of my post. What have you got in the way of evidence? (oh yeah, your one-liners...NOT!) But I'll make a single attempt to humor your "request" (even though it is simply an attempt to shift the burden of proof from yourself). Here's an expert on reproduction, stem cell research and bioethics, Dr. Arthur L. Caplan:

There's a reason for this kind of failure rate. Ironically evidence for just why so many fail was uncovered during in vitro fertilization (IVF). Bear in mind that doctors go to great pains to insure that the woman's body is optimally prepared to receive the zygotes generated by IVF (her temperature, uterine lining, and hormonal state are peak). However, despite their best efforts, the success rate of IVF at producing a pregnancy is only marginally better than that of getting pregnant the old-fashioned way (~25%). When one actually looks at cells from these embryos we now know why, most of them have chromosomal defects that make them non-viable. Or as the reseachers here have observed:

Why is there such an "error rate" ("bad" eggs/conceptions)?
1. Upon ovulation eggs have a very short "shelf life", i.e., they start to deteriorate after 24 hours. An egg can't "wait" in the Fallopian tube indefinitely, for the right sperm to come along (so to speak). Now suppose that the egg is fertilized after 24 hours, the odds of this conception forming a viable pregnancy have just plummeted because the egg is damaged (timing of fertilization is critical).

Sperm are hearter cells, but after 72 hours, they also start to undergo the same kind of deterioration. So let's say a woman had sex 3 days before ovulation and a number of sperm have made it to the Fallopian tube where they "lay in wait' for an egg (as it were). Upon ovulation,that egg, while still prime is unlikely to be fertilized by a viable sperm.

The fertilized egg may be of poor quality, but that doesn't mean that it won't start to divide and begin it's migration to the uterus (many don't make it). It may even have the "right stuff" to accomplish an implantation and become a pregnancy, BUT, somewhere down the developmental pike, the damage catches up with the developing embryo and a spontaneous abortion occurs before the end of the 1st trimester.

2. Not all fertilizations occur when there's an endometrial lining in good enough condition to house the zygote IF it gets to the uterus. Zygotes usually don't implant in a the muscle of the uterus, they need a warm, cushy lining (nutrients, blood vessels, etc.) to house them. Again timing is everything. The blastocyst may get there too soon (no mature lining) or too late (menstruation is in progress). Either way, it passes out of the woman who never has a clue that she had conceived (a conception does NOT a pregnancy make).

3. Couple this with the fact that meiosis (the reduction division that creates gametes--ANIMATED TUTORIAL) is prone to error (whole, duplicated chromosomes must segregate, not always done correctly). It seems that females don't have the same "checkpoint" during the process that male sperm undergo, so if there's a screw-up and the chromosomes don't segregate properly (non-disjunction), meiosis for the egg continues (despite the genetic damage that would send most dividing cells into programmed cell death or apoptosis). This is the most likely reason why the IVF professionals observe so much genetic carnage when they look at the embryos they create. Here are articles that addresses this issue of nondisjunction directly:


This lack of discrimination in female meiosis (genetically damaged eggs not sent off into apoptosis) will occur no matter what the woman's age. What one can expect is that this kind of genetic screw-up will only increase as she ages (why the incidence of Down's syndrome increases dramatically with age).

Other primary journal articles on the above topic of female non-disjunction:
1. Meiotic and mitotic nondisjunction: lessons from preimplantation genetic diagnosis

2. Sex matters in meiosis

More References on the topic of conception loss:
3. Goldstein SR. Embryonic death in early pregnancy: a new look at the first trimester. Obstet Gynecol. 1994;84:294.

4. Jauniaux E, Gavriil P, Nicolaides KH. Ultrasonographic assessment of early pregnancy complications. In: Jurkovic D, Jauniaux E, eds. Ultrasound and Early Pregnancy. Carnforth, United Kingdom: Parthenon Publishing; 1996:53.

5. Gary Cunningham et al., Williams Obstetrics, 21st Ed. Chapter 2-Pregnancy: Overview, Organization, and Diagnosis pp 3-15 (*this text is one of the most used in the field, over 20 editions)

6. Gary Cunningham et al., Williams Obstetrics, 21st Ed. Chapter 4-The Endometrium and Decidua: Menstruation and Pregnancy pp. 65-84

7. Moore, G., Essentials of Obstetrics and Gynecology, 3rd. ed., Chapter 7-The Menstrual Cycle, Ovulation, Fertilization, Implantation and the Placenta pp 59-75

Furthermore, it is antichoicers like you and livingproofGM who assert that human BEING is present from conception. The burden of proof is on YOU (the one with the affirmative claim has the burden of proof). However, the scientific evidence (gestational development, so many conceptions "expendable") is disproof of such a claim which is why the vast majority of embryologists, ob/gyns, and biologists (myself included) don't hue to the bogus notion that a human being is present at conception (also in my references).
It? (a number of statements above...to which do you refer with the indefinite pronoun "it"?)
Fertilization in the Fallopian tube? Migration to the uterus? Definition of a pregnancy (implantation in the uterine lining of the blastocyst , i.e., stage of the zygote)?

Most zygotes don't make it to the implantation stage? Consult references above (yes, you may actually have to open a real textbook or peer-reviewed journal)

And your evidence is? Wow from one-liners to one-worders as an argument. I am totally underwhelmed.

continued in Part 2. . . .
 
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No, I don't agree that it's a human "life". Don't twist my words. The fertilized egg is "alive", biochemically, like ANY other cell. What you mean by "life" is a whole other concept in that you imply that there is a human BEING there, which is NOT the case.

DieHappy said:
It is fully human, accoding to it's DNA, and it's fully alive according to definitions of life.
If you go by the DNA, the every nucleated cell in your body meets EXACTLY the same criterion. That means that a surgeon who chucks an appendix into the trash has just committed mass murder (by your definition). Again, the fertilized egg is "alive", but it is NOT a human "life" aka human BEING.

Oh pulleeze! A handicapped child is NOT the equivalent of a fertilized egg (can you even come close to demonstrating that?). Such a child, no matter how handicapped is a person (no doubt here), BUT the scientific evidence does NOT support your claim that a fertilized egg (or an embryo/fetus below 23 weeks) deserves such a classification. Till you show that what is being aborted IS a person, your pious mulling about "protecting life" is just that, mulling.

More equivocation from you. You are an acknowledged person. It doesn't matter what your size was. The point is that this blastocyst is NOT a human BEING, like you are now. Again, WHERE are your arguments for considering a conception like this blastocyst to be equivalent of yourself or any other born human being? Do realize that I will not let you get away with your lamentable pretense that this blastocyst is your "equal" when it comes to being defined as a human "BEING" (a person deserving protection under the law).

The failure rate of conceptions already addressed in Post #167. And you evidence that a conception is a human being would be what? You're the one claiming that it's a human being, not I. Too bad the embryological/developmental data disproves your claim (that you somehow never get around to offering any evidence for).

Nothing of consequence, as per usual with everything you have "said" thus far (unsupported one-lines and assertions...worth exactly zero, zip, and ziltch in a debate)

Again with your attempt to force us to accept that a conception and every stage of a pregnancy is a "child" (a human BEING). Of course conception will EVENTUALLY become a child, but ONLY at the expense of the woman.

No we don't agree that an embryo is a human "life" (a human BEING). The scientific data supports my argument that a human BEING is NOT present till a certain stage of gestation (+23 weeks MINIMUM). Human rights don't apply to the embryo because it's NOT a human BEING. Your evidence that it is would be WHAT?

These are the scientific experts in the field of embryological development. The fact that you would dismiss expert testimony with this pitiful bit of handwaving is yet another demonstration of the poverty of your argument. If you have something other than one-liners and unevidenced assertion, now's the time to present your evidence that completely gainsays what these experts in the fields of embryology, development physiology and medicine have to say.

To whom should we listen?
So far all we've gotten in the way of an argument from you are one-liners, one-worders, handwaving, and unsupported assertions.

No one would disagree that a 11 month old is a human BEING (despite not having attain a first birthday, etc.). What YOU have yet to demonstrate is that a conception (most of which fail to generate a live birth) and ALL stages of a pregnancy are the equivalent of this 11 month old. The fact is that they are NOT (only when a pregnancy has progressed past 23 weeks can one even hope to make such a claim).

BTW, how would you plan on caring for all those millions you want to force women to have? Here is why the adoption argument is such a none-starter.. LivingproofGM doesn't seem to have any ideas (not saying that either of you should be wholy responsible for solving the problem on your lonesome...just what kind of plans would you propose?)
 
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First, are you suggesting there are no pro-life lobbyists? Or that the pro-life movement never lies?

More importantly, though, perhaps it isn't that the politicians are spineless on abortion. Instead, I think it's that they respect the will of the majority.
 
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DieHappy said:
So, would you support allowing the protesters inside the abortion clinics to spread their information? That way, the target would get to hear it, and the kids would not have to see it.

Personally I would support the protestors minding their own business and staying away from the abortion clinics altogether.
 
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I just can't help but think that even more could be stopped if the pro-life groups were as vocal about other options and available support as they are at getting across the abortion is murder message. I have on numerous occasions heard pro-life people actually rubbish the suggestion that those options should be persued!
 
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So, would you support allowing the protesters inside the abortion clinics to spread their information? That way, the target would get to hear it, and the kids would not have to see it.



Who would allow that? You can oppose abortion until the cows come home but that doesn't mean you can harrass... practically stalk women to get your point across.

I swear one of these days I'll see somebody advocate having an anti-abortion advocate in every OB/GYN exam room to make sure that the point is hammered home.

I think it's safe to assume that if a woman is getting an abortion she's getting it after considering all the options, including dozens anti-abortion advocates haven't thought of.
 
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I think it's safe to assume that if a woman is getting an abortion she's getting it after considering all the options, including dozens anti-abortion advocates haven't thought of.

I must disagree, at least with the case of teenage girls. For so many, it is a matter of not knowing the options, only thinking of an abortion. They are not educated enough on the alternitives, and in this I agree with the OPer.

So many girls/women who get abortions don't know. I think it is safe to assume that some know of the other choices, but so many don't. Maybe not a pro-life in every abortion clinic, but a list/poster/pamplet of all other choices that are out there, including up and down sides. Abortion would be on this pamplet, and this pamplet (or poster, ect.) would be approved by rationally thinking members of both sides, so the pamplet would not be baised.

Also, concerning that OPer, I don't agree with abortions partly becuase they degrade sex. So giving out free controceptives would not appease some of us. Just a note.
 
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I hope you do not expect me to believe for one moment that your intentions are noble and dispassionate.

I do not expect you to believe anything in particular. People's perceptions of my intentions are irrelevent to the point of showing what an aborted baby looks like. Think about me or the abortion pictures anyway you wish.
 
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When it comes to pregnancy there are only a small number of outcomes. Birth and keeping the baby, abortion, adoption, and natural termination of pregnancy. I can promise you that not one woman who gets an abortion regardless of her age is unaware that adoption is a choice or keeping the child is a choice.

The list that you talk about that weighs out the options of abortion and adoption and keeping the child is readily available at Planned Parenthood. I've been there dozens of times and it's always been there and easy to get. I've even read it over it's very good. Planned Parenthood is a wonderful resource for information on pregnancies and abortion and adoption.

I think reducing the cost of contraceptives or making them available to low income people is a brilliant idea. I really can't think of any downside to it really. It'd really put a large dent in the abortion rates.
 
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Monica02 said:
I do not expect you to believe anything in particular. People's perceptions of my intentions are irrelevent to the point of showing what an aborted baby looks like. Think about me or the abortion pictures anyway you wish.
You are going to some length to avoid explaining why you think pictures of aborted fetuses are necessary to your cause in the first place.
 
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I think that one of the problems with many of the pro-lifers is that they don't offer any solution. Like you said, abortions have been going on since forever. I'm sure we don't want to go back to performing coat hanger abortions with all of the negative consequences there. Infection, scarring, and real permanant injury. Forget that. I just don't understand it. Plus, show me a pro-lifer who wouldn't allow her daughter to have an abortion if she were a victim of rape.
 
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