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Stigmata

Mantishand

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I was sitting thinking today and remembered something that happened years ago and thought I'd share the quick story.

My family and I had just moved into our dream property but it needed some work. I have a very bad back and can't do physical things without severe pain. Well I had to fix a rotting deck. which is pretty physical and was very painful.

This was early on in my Christianity and I cussed and complained a lot. I was a very grumpy person due to chronic pain. I am pretty sure I was just starting the Bible at that time and didn't really know how God thinks about complaining (haha).

Well I remember just reaaaalllly cursing and complaining (out loud) while building this deck. I was in so much pain but this had to be done. I was in the middle of just having a pity party and complaining to God that I hurt so much. Just being miserable. Well I slipped on something and put my hand out to break my fall and the palm of my hand landed on an old nail sticking up through a 2x4.

It didn't go all the way through but it hurt bad. When I pulled the nail out I looked at my palm and suddenly in my mind was the crucifixion of our Christ. It brought to my mind all that he suffered for us. Here I am at this wonderful property that He gave me, at a wonderful time in my life, whining and complaining because of my pain instead of being grateful.

Well in an instant I realized my error. He corrected that problem right there and then. It was awesome. I am so grateful now for our great God and what he has done for me. I don't complain because I have nothing to complain about. Life comes with pain but if you focus on it instead of Christ you take the negative path which is darkness. Thank you Jesus!