Steps?

[llghoney]

It is highly likely that I have miscarried this week and was wondering what steps did you take when you had found out? Did you seek support from a group? If so where? And do you always think about what happened?

Thanks
God Bless

 

[bornagain-053184]

hey there
iam so sorry about your MC. i had one 2 yrs ago to be honest i put it at the back of my mind for a long time cuz i didnt know how to deal when then i relized not dealing with it was making it harder on me... i wrote letters to my daughter i wrote poetry i talked to friends about it and i prayed alot.. i still do and i still miss her like crazy and i still think about her everyday and wish sometimes there was something i could have done to prevent it from happening but i know it was just not ment to be and god has his reasons for taking my daughter.

 

[Protinus]

Hi: I am a new moderator here and have supervisors that are much more accomplished tham I am. But you must follow up with your OB, after a while has past and you are ready, to begin again (for scheduling purposes only as it is difficult to establish an appointment, even with an established physician).

Now, here and now, ..you must approach support groups that meet your needs. You would be a resource more than us for your area. We can facilitate informational sources if you want from our standpoint, but it might not "fit" with your needs.

You may be able to facilitate things on your own with internet searches and books form the library. This might not be possible acutely. Maybe you need guidance in your grief and need local services. A house of worship acn help with these concerns.

Please let us knoiw if we can help!

 

[Picture.Of.Obedience]

I am so sorry for your loss.
Try and find a SHARE group in your area. They may be very helpful. It is a support group, or contact your local hospital and see if they have one.
Online support groups are great too. I LOVE www.silentgrief.com

I hope you find comfort. It is nice talking to others who have expierenced loss. PM me if you ever need to talk to someone.