I need step parenting advice. My husband has a daughter whom I learned to love so much. We been getting along so nicely and do stuff only mothers do. I take her to school, cook for her, go with her to the doctor and etc. I believe I am a good mother to her since her mom past away a few years ago. Now, I want her to my daughter legally. Is this possible? An article about step parenting at parenting411.com only discusses legal step parenting rights for dads. Does it also apply to me? I'm married to his father does this mean I'm automatically a legal adoptive parent to her? Please enlighten me on this matter.