Staying Off

[abi19]

hey,
I used to be a heavy cocaine addict and I stopped awhile ago really because my life was so screwed up it couldn't get any worse. And also because I couldn't get anymore and my parents found out what I was doing. But it's been awhile now, and I still want it just as bad. I know as soon as I get the chance to get more I'll get it and I'll give almost anything for it. Lately I've been meeting up with some of my old friends, and its almost driving me crazy with wanting it. I know I'm going to give in, but I don't want to start it all again. How do I stay off?
Any helpful advice welcome...

 

[jenniferstell]

Don't hang around with your old friends. I don't know what it's like to be addicted to cocaine, but when I quit smoking cigarettes, I had to stay away from everyone I knew that smoked for a while.

 

[allieisme]

It is very important that you do not hang around the same crowd. If possible I would even suggest you moving out of the area so you are not tempted by anything.
I used to be addicted as well as my sister, I cannot hang around her anymore because I know she is still using, the urge is still there, if it was placed in front of me, quite honestly I would be very tempted.
You just have to continue to reach out to the Lord. When you are struggling, ask Him to carry you. I know its easier said that done, but I leaned alot on Him.

 

[Harlan Norris]

hey,
I used to be a heavy cocaine addict and I stopped awhile ago really because my life was so screwed up it couldn't get any worse. And also because I couldn't get anymore and my parents found out what I was doing. But it's been awhile now, and I still want it just as bad. I know as soon as I get the chance to get more I'll get it and I'll give almost anything for it. Lately I've been meeting up with some of my old friends, and its almost driving me crazy with wanting it. I know I'm going to give in, but I don't want to start it all again. How do I stay off?
Any helpful advice welcome...

Take heart, I'm an old Coke head. The withdrawl you are going through is the result of your natural endorphins no longer functioning. Time changes that. If you hang tough, six months to a year. You will be back to normal. Those old friends, though, are a serious roadblock to your success. Sad to say, but you have to dump them. Don't give in, I know how hard it is, but it can be done. Get to work and stay busy. You'll just be going through the motions at first. In time you will feel the pull decrease. This is serious business. Two people that I know died as a result of their addiction. However after you succeed, you will have overcome a lot of your other problems as well. Just remember you are the one that got you into this. Taking responsibility for your actions, is the key to success. I will pray for you.

 

[cajunlady]

You have to be willing to go to any lengths to remain that way. I know for me, I did anything to get my drugs so I take that same effort and put that into my recovery. You have to be willing to change PEOPLE, PLACES, and THINGS.......please lean on God, he will help if you allow him to.......God Bless and I will be praying for you.......

 

[GabrielW]

If you're really interested in stopping you could check out Cocaine Anonymous and Alcoholics Anonymous. You can google either and get numbers of offices in your area. Just give them a call and they can give you a listing for meetings in your area. It may be scary but it has worked for millions and there are promises

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Good luck