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Tink04 said:

I'm just about ready to pop!

Please pray for me. I'm so sick and tired of Him trying to manipulate and control me!!!!

Back in January I told my stbx that I wanted to start paying the insurance on the van. We found that in order to do that, we had to sign it over to me as owner. He said that I was the one with the kids and he was more then willing to do that. He wanted to go to the registry on the weekend and sign it over to me.

The reason we didn't is because I didn't have the $200 it was going to cost for the safety inspection. I decided to wait until I had the money.

I phoned him this morning and told him the situation with the van. That I would give the van back to him, but he would need to get a new door.
He was trying to get me to pay for the door, because he didn't have any money. I told him I wasn't going to buy him a door. That I was being generous and giving it back to him when I could sell it.


He phoned me tonight and told me he didn't want me to change the door on HIS vehicle. That it was not mine and I wasn't allowed to do that.

I've been in possesion of the van for the last EIGHT MONTHS and he has been more then willing to let me have it. He's been out looking for a vehicle because he doesn't have one. Now suddenly he's changed his mind. He wants it and I'm not allowed to do anything with it.

What's wrong with me!!! Why do I think that there might ever be an ounce of truth that comes out of his mouth. Why would I ever think that maybe possibly he could care about anyone but himself!!!!



This is so STUPID!!!! I'm so d*mn sick of his games!!
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Tink04 said:

I think this thread needs a little lifting up now. I think I do as well. So since most of you haven't hear it I'll tell you how God has been so good to me this last year.

Last year right around this time I was having a really down depressed time. I went to church that Sunday a man came up to me and gave me a bunch of flowers. Told me that God told him to buy them for a woman and to tell her that God loved her very much and was going to look after her.
Durring this same service God gave me this verse.....
Jer 31
2 This is what the Lord says: “Those who survive the coming destruction
will find blessings even in the barren land,
for I will give rest to the people of Israel.”
3 Long ago the Lord said to Israel:
“I have loved you, my people, with an everlasting love.
With unfailing love I have drawn you to myself.
4 I will rebuild you, my virgin Israel.
You will again be happy
and dance merrily with your tambourines.
(these flowers, just so happened, to come from the same man who is giving me the van.)

When I feel through our glass coffee table I could have gotten seriously injered, but I didn't because God was pertecting me.

I already told you about my son's school and how his tuition got paid for.

In Dec I had very little money, just enough to pay the bills and that was all. No money for food or Christmas.

I was "adopted" by a company for Christmas. They bought gifts for the kids and even asked me what I wanted.
I got all kinds of gift certificates for groceries and gas that month. More then what I needed. I even was able to give one of them away to another family that was in need. These certificates carried me right through until now. I'm just using up the last one. Most of these certificates came from people I don't even know.

I'm sure there is more of them. Search can you think of any I missed? I'm sure I have, my brain isn't functioning too well tonight.

God's been taking good care of me.

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Tink04 said:

Hi Michelle, I'm here.

I've been around I just haven't posted much.

I'm doing OK, but I am stressed. I'm still trying to deal with this van thing.

Not sure what else to say. Don't be worried I'm getting through, I'm just quiet at the moment.

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Tink04 said:

Ok So I've changed my direction a bit.

I was going to do Process Pipline Drafting. But the course doesn't start until next Jan. I really didn't want to wait that long to start school and I'm still needing to find a job in the mean time. I'm really, really not wanting to work in a grocery store or Walmart.

I was searching online last night and found this Job.....




I think I would enjoy doing this. I've always done well at the computer courses I've taken. I like to learn new things. I enjoy helping people.
I don't have any of the certificates they list but they say they are willing to train.



Now I just have to convince them to give me a chance.

Also how would I figure out what I should put down for wage expectations?

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I need prayer for my room mates dad. He is incredibally sick. They found a tumor that goes from his kidney up and wraps around his heart. He goes in for major, major surgery on thursday. Please pass this one around. His name is JB and my room mates name is Lynel. He grows weeker by the day and they arnt sure he is going to survive the surgery. Please pray. Im not sure what it would do to my room mate and her son. I know he is in Gods hands and His will will be done. But....

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JohnDB said:

Well...if she is in Canada it is one of the few countries that if her husband decides to contest the divorce at all she is in a wold of a mess.

He can make her spend money like it was water to get a divorce...it is a country where he can make her what the bible refers to as a "put away wife". In other words they will still be legally married in the Government's eyes but recieve no spousal support at all unless he decides to get divorced.

She will recieve no government support at all if she is married and he has a good paying job. Even though she has left with the children and is in all rights a divorced woman in truth...but legally she isn't and therefore in a big fix. If there is any private agency that can assist her I don't know of one...there are lots here in America...but she doesn't live there. She is Canadian.

She is going to need a "no contest" type divorce and alimony from him in order to make it...and he has every reason not to do so...and from what she has said about him being abusive...he likely won't.

I wish there was something I can do but I am ignorant of any groups there in Canada that can do that sort of thing.

Praying for you honey...survival is going to be your top priority at the moment. I hope you find some kind of job soon...and then living quarters.

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