We know that Jesus is the only way to God but your original question was "are there different ways to come to Jesus?" Specicifically Arsenios would say the sacraments of baptism, marraige, communion etc is the way but he would say that way is shrouded in mystery. Whereas I would say that the way is thru the reality of baptism, marraige, communion etc.
The liturgy vs non liturgical thinking perhaps.
~ in the spiritual sense that is only about 'Christ and the church.' ~
ie:
What is true in baptism : that we have died in Christ ;
needs to be assimulated to become a reality. As real as the actual baptism that people are relying on to save them.
What is true in marraige: that the two have become one ;
needs to be true in the spiritual. It is a 24 - 7 relationship. Whatever you expect from your wife can easily be an expectation of what Christ wants from you.
What is true of communion : that He is our edification ( a food that others know nothing about)
needs to be our daily bread, a continuous feeding on Him.
Being completely aware that the reality of abiding is factual does not carry with it a duality of perception; one minute He's there and the next minute He's gone. Like Peter that's probably how our minds do work so the best that can be done is to bring the mind captive to Christ. (a turning to Christ away from the devil)
Because I said ""it's just life"" and ""life is a constant awareness""" doesn't mean that I have arrived. It just means that I have decided to believe the truth that He is with us always, even to the end of the age
RATHER
than the devil's lies that say God has abandoned us to fight the devil alone as mere natural beings that are just fed animals. The devil bets on that lie that says at first sign of not being fed we will forsake all that Christ offers. Best not to believe the lie to start with.
"A time is coming and has now come when the true worshipers will worship the Father in spirit and truth" John 4:23
That's an inward motion rather than an outward motion is all that I'm saying.
I just don't see how a repetition of words helps when He is Present for actually working thru life lessons if we will give Him of our time.
Edit to add: There's nothing wrong with many times during the day to tell Him that you love him. Perhaps what I object to is the constant reminding oneself that of our previous condition outside of Christ. Because when we take on His name we take on His identity not that of the previous husband. Looking back after taking the plow in hand makes for very crooked paths