I think mainly because the normal human concept of time has vastly more utility than something that could directly represent the more esoteric conclusions from evidence about reality.
Hmm .. I think the reality you might mean there,
is the physics models, or theories humans have developed, (ie: Newtonian & Quantum Mechanics, Thermodynamics, SR, GR, etc). We need a concept of time included in them, in order to make sense of what we observe, or perceive.
We don't know what those models/theories 'refer to', (or 'represent'), because that never actually gets tested .. only the models get tested.
I'm in thinking mode at the moment, about yet another proposed concept of 'causal time', which plays a big role in a new testable theory of life currently under development. I guess we can add that to the list of time concepts, (ie: external clock time, the arrow of time, simultaneity and now, causal time). Time is a pliable concept, but what's obvious, is that it never completely disappears for us .. we can't do without it .. which is why I say time is vital part in the operating system of our human minds .. and not something existing independently from it. The different concepts of it, and its pliability across diverse physics models/theories, are the evidence of its mind dependence.
There is no evidence for its mind independence.
(FWIW IMO: .. so, there is therefore little utility value I can see, in debating multiple instances of 'oscillations in an atom' across the universe vs 'simultaneity of events viewable from different observer frames across the universe .. independently from the mind perceiving time in both of those respective theories there).