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narnia59

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Actually she spoke what was true.. She was at that time not knowing any man.. She was a virgin. And Joseph kept her a virgin until the birth of Christ.. It really is quite simple to read in the scriptures.
What you are saying would make perfect sense IF the angel had told Mary she had already conceived. Her response of how can this be, I am a virgin (meaning I have not yet known a man) would be quite logical.

However, since the angel told her she would conceive in the future, Mary's response only makes sense if Mary believed that in the future, she would still be a virgin. Asking, 'how can this be' -- how can I conceive in the future -- makes no sense at all unless Mary planned on being a virgin in the future as well. If as you believe, she and Joseph were planning on having a bunch of kids, her assumption would certainly have been the angel was speaking of the child she and Joseph would conceive. She wouldn't have had to question how this conception was going to occur at all.
 
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I guess depending on the Greek text used,

not know and not knowing are both possible.

Here again, in the Luke passage, Gabriel speaks of a future pregnancy.
Mary confirms this (future) "shall" ( shall is proper for will in the first person - singular and plural) and says "not know a man".
 
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That is ok by me

Did ya see this thread? ehehe

http://christianforums.com/showthread.php?t=7298632
Abstain...from blood?
 
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How silly is this..LOL
 
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How silly is this..LOL
Well, now that's an intelligent and thought-provoking response. Struggling a little? Perhaps you should remove your thinking from your 21st century, 'sex is the main thing' mindset, and things will be clearer.

Please explain then how Mary's response makes any sense at all? She obviously knew how one conceives a child (by knowing a man), and assumes this is what the angel is referring to (knowing a man). It is clear she assumes this is the method of conception the angel is talking about. The angel tells her she will conceive a child in the future. You say she was betrothed to a man she was planning in the near future to 'know'. If that is the case, she would have logically assumed the angel was speaking about conceiving a child with the man she was about to 'know'. The fact that she is currently a virgin has no implication at all to the conversation as you interpret it, so why was that her response?
 
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Number one Mary would not even have been betrothed if she was planning on being a PV..But she was.. And they did Marry.. But she was already with child before they were married.. So this shows the time span..
And you know this how, outside of your own personal views and tradition?
 
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Number one Mary would not even have been betrothed if she was planning on being a PV..But she was.. And they did Marry.. But she was already with child before they were married.. So this shows the time span..

No it does not.... at least exact since we do not know "dates".... Secondly if Mary id not betrothed...then she would be putting the whole incarnation in jeopardy as she would have been stoned.........according to Jewish custom. God "worked" His plan that way... The safety of the Mother and Child. Again no where it says that she was married as per discribing the event of the actual marriage.. ONLY the angel telling Joseph not to hesitate to take her as his wife... We have no other proof that the "ceremony" took place as according to jewish law is was a private affair...

The Betrhothal was the conrtact that was required to be public, and that part was done....
 
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Exactly..... Bingo...
 
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Number one Mary would not even have been betrothed if she was planning on being a PV..But she was.. And they did Marry.. But she was already with child before they were married.. So this shows the time span..

Mary is a unique case -- so without the Bible saying this, it doesn't apply.
There are other unique cases - Hosea was commanded to marry a prostitute and an adulteress, in clear defiance of Levitical Law. The Christ was hung on a tree - "cursed" per the Law.
 
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Ever more diversions...

You choose to confuse Protestantism with Restitutionalism in an attempt to not answer why it is of the most critical level of importance that Mary never once had sex and what substantiation you have for to the appropriate level that you regard as valid for others.


Protestantism does NOT teach that God founded the specific particular Catholic denomination, we teach that God founded the one holy catholic church/the communion of saints that STILL exists as it always has and always will, we do not say that the Holy Spirit failed to protect the church from hell (note: we believe the one holy catholic church STILL exists - bigger than ever), we do not claim that Hell ever defeated the Christian Gospel (it's still being proclaimed), nor that the church EVER did (or ever will) go apostate. YOu know all this. Yet, for some reason, you don't want to explain why the issue of how often Mary and Joseph had sex (if at all) is the most extreme, critical level of importance, how you know it to be true, and why you are absolutely confident that Mary considers all discussions of how often she had sex with Joseph to be a matter of critical importance that all the world MUST know and she feels it is the most distinctively loving thing that can be said about a couple - how often they have sex or not.




I have never requested that you accept my traditions. I've simply asked that CJ quits inserting his own traditions into mine, and then saying mine are in conflict. Which to this point, he seems unwilling to do.


Wrong. I have bent over backwards on this, stating that I'll let YOU establish what is and is not authoritative. The Catholics indicated that Scripture is: okay, they permit noncatholics to look to Scripture so obviously they regard Scripture as authoritaitve. Now, you don't recognize denominational Tradition as Authoritative when I use it, so clearly you don't regard that as Authoritative - okay, I won't either then. You don't recognize my interpretation of verses, OT and NT as Authoritative so obviously you don't regard individual (or denominational) interpretation as Authoritative - okay, so I won't either. I'm just following the Catholic's lead, allowing Catholics to state what is and is not Authoritative. It has been made clear as can be that denominational traditions, interpretations and declarations are not Authoritative (you reject such consistently) and I'll abide by that same rubric - which means your denomination's traditions, interpretations and declarations are not authoritative. Fine. So, I think that leaves us with Scripture and history. You don't have any Scripture (just your own denomination's INTERPRETATION of it), so that leaves us with history. But you don't seem to have anything there either, not within centuries of Mary's death. But, I'm OBVIOUSLY supremely patient and I AM waiting. Again, I'll accept ANY Authority that YOU regard as valid for other Christians, I don't know how to be more fair. Or generous.
 
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But I would have to ask does it really make it ‘okay’ to say things you have said are unloving and hurtful towards Mary simply because one thinks they are true based upon their own standard of what defines truth?


No. If you think there is a significant POSSIBILITY for hurt, pain or offense if one billion people told the rest of the world as a matter of highest importance how often you have sex with your spouse - and to deny such is to be a heretic whose salvation is thereby in question, then there is a significant POSSIBILITY for the same toward Mary. And frankly, I love Mary a lot more than I love you (take nothing negative there, I love her more than I love me, too). What I've been saying is that there is a POTENTIAL for pain, I've never remotely stated that it DOES hurt or offend Her.






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No substantiation has been offered according to your standard, but the doctrine is not yours.


Agreed, but She is my Mother....


Let's say many others were stating as the highest level of importance and certainty that your mother is a a murderer, and to deny such is to suggest that your salvation is thereby in question. Now, it would not be YOUR dogma or doctrine or even your view at all!!! But might you CARE that this is be said about your mother? Well, we're talking about something FAR more personal, intimate and private than that and we're not talking about your mother, we're talking about Our Lady, the Mother of God.




Once again, after 200 pages, I did NOT bring up the issue of whether speech is distinctively, above all LOVING toward Our Lady. A Catholic Staffer did - WarriorAngel. Silly to rebuke ME for asking if this obsession over Her frequency of sex after Jesus is born is LOVING or not - I didn't raise the question, a Catholic did.

I never remotely stated that Mary did or did not have sex. Ever. With anyone. The Catholic Church did. As dogma - the highest level of importance and certainty, critical, to deny such is to be a heretic. Silly to rebuke me for asking about her sex life when I never raised the issue, the Catholic Church did.

I did not state that it is essential that a report about a person must be substantiated or the spreading of it is a SIN (and the question I asked, is sinning against someone distictively LOVING toward them?), the Catholic Church made this point. Silly to rebuke me for the point that the Catholic Church makes.

I have pointed out that IF we were discussing how many angels fit on the head of a pin, whether Aristotle's theory of accidents is dogma, or whether the Shroud of Turin is the actual shroud of Jesus, frankly, I would have exited this thread a LONG time ago, just like the one who started this - and then quickly left it. BUT IT'S MY MOTHER YOU'RE TALKING about: AS DOGMA, AND THE TOPIC OF THIS DOGMA IS HOW OFTEN SHE HAD SEX. If (and I honestly think I MUST be kinda wierd here) you care what is said about your earthly mother, I just felt (but no longer do) it SHOULD matter what is said about our spiritual, heavenly Mother. It matters to me. NOT ONLY because Her Son stated that we will be held eternally responsible for what we say about people, but MUCH MORE SO because I love, adore, revere, honor, respect and hold Our Lady in highest esteem. As the death of Her Son pierced Her sacred heart, I grieve that obessions and stories and insistences today may do the same. And yes, that grieves me.


You are willing to accept it as sufficient substantiation and authorization that those spreading the story say it's true. Ironically, this is a rubric you consistent reject and yet you are defending it above all else. Okay. Defending that seems of utmost importance to you. The sacred heart of Our Lady is more important to me.



IF this issue of Mary's hymen at Her death is true and She is honored and revered and above all regards the spreading of such among all the peoples as above all LOVING toward Her, then God bless you - mightily. And if my silence is hurtful to Her, I beg Her forgiveness. IF this is, in fact, either a falsehood or simply an issue Mary is not pleased has been made such an obession and the highest level of importance among Catholics and is the source of much pain for Her and Her Son, THIS I KNOW from the bottom of my heart: She knows you meant no harm and She KNOWS that you sincerely love her (my years in Catholicism steadfastly convinced me of that), and I believe she forgives you. As does Her Son. You are repeated what your denomination told you and accepting it "with docility" as it demands, and they know that. More importantly, they know the sincerity of your heart.


IF the Catholics have learned ANYTHING of the Protestant perspective here from my posts, then maybe SOMETHING has been accomplished and it has not all be an entire waste of time. I did learn a few aspects of the implications and spirituality of such in the EO that were enriching to me. Perhaps the Catholics will take this away: I have no obsessive, insistent DOGMA on her hymen at Her death NOT because I hate her but because I LOVE her. In my heart, TRUTH and RESPECT matter for the ones we love. To ME, the heart of Mary matters more than the defense of the power of my denomination. I love Mary more than the Lutheran Church - Missouri Synod, her reputation matters more to me than its.


I'm OBVIOUSLY not going to get any of my questions answered, not after 200 + pages. The deep concern I've had since I was a young teen will continue; griving that Our Lady might be hurt by all this. I need to "bow out" and realize some MUST agree with what their denomination says and CANNOT discuss that, and I do know that. I do NOT question your heart. I do NOT call you heretic or even wrong, that's all been leveled at me.


I'm giving up, for this day and thread anyway. But I will NOT give up loving, protecting and defending My Mother! Not at long as their is breath in my heart, soul and body.




Thank you for allowing me to post, anyway.


Pax


- Josiah




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IF the Catholics have learned ANYTHING of the Protestant perspective here from my posts, then maybe SOMETHING has been accomplished and it has not all be an entire waste of time.

I thought you were convinced either for PV or against...it...Now you are "taking the Protestant" perspective???? wow... moving guideposts all around here . ....huh??
 
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But I will NOT give up loving, protecting and defending My Mother
You truly believe that she needs "our defend and support"? It is rather we who need her... Oh... about protection....too you got it the other way around...

If the saints needed "our support" while they are already in heaven praying for us ....then the whole idea of them being saints would be null.... and wrong....

If Christ came to save all don't you think that his mother who is his closest relative through his incarnation is already protected????


TATA.
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There are two denominations that have a position regarding how often Mary had sex during her lifetime. They are the CC and the EO.

All other denominations (Protestant or otherwise) have no official position (dogmatic, doctrinal, or at all) concerning her sex life after Jesus was born. Thus, the "Protestant perspective" is to be silent on this, just as Christ and God's Scripture are.


Of course, unlike me, SOME Protestant individuals have a personal pious opinion about this just as Protestants, Catholics and Orthodox might about millions of other issues, religious and otherwise, but I was referring to the official stance, which is respectfully honoring the silence of Her Son and God's Scriptures.





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There are two denominations that have a position regarding how often Mary had sex during her lifetime. They are the CC and the EO.

All other denominations (Protestant or otherwise) have no official position (dogmatic, doctrinal, or at all) concerning her sex life after Jesus was born. Thus, the official "Protestant perspective" is to be silent on this, with no dogma or doctrine or even an official teaching.
Of course, unlike me, SOME Protestant individuals have a personal pious opinion about this just as Protestants, Catholics and Orthodox might about millions of other issues, religious and otherwise, but I was referring to the official stance, which is respectfully honoring the silence of Her Son and God's Scriptures.





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