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Something to think about

suzybeezy

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I read this article today and thought it was worth sharing with all of you


PRACTICE WHAT YOU PREACH


Are you sending your child mixed messages about good values? See if any of these little slip-ups sound familiar.

1. You tell your child it's nice to help others...but you never drop anything into your supermarket's food-drive bin.

2. You shout "Turn off those cartoons"...but you spend every evening watching TV until bedtime.

3. You tell your child she's perfect just as she is,...but you're obsessed with your weight.

4. You explain that people come in all shapes, sizes and colors...but when your friend/neighbor tells a racist joke, you laugh.

5. You insist that your little one apologize to her friends when she snatches away their toys,...but you and your husband never make up in front of your child after a fight.

6. You tell him to control his tantrums...but you curse at anyone who cuts you off when you're driving him to school.

7. You say "Use your words"...but when you're angry at your partner and he asks what's wrong, you snap "If you don't know, I'm not going to tell you".

8. You urge your child not to compare herself with others,...but you get jealous if your neighbor takes a fancier vacation than you do.

9. You tell your child he needs to be a better listener, but you interrupt his stories to answer your cell phone.

10. You say it's polite to take turns...but you hog the remote control.

11. You teach that it's wrong to steal, but you take towels home from the hotel.
 

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How about DS yelling at DD, "but mommy she wasn't listening!" just like mom complains.

Or taking the toy out of her hadn to put it away, "but it's clean up time!"

Or DEMANDING DD get out of the chair "NOW" Mom wants orders followed imediatly! and Mom has no patience.

Or dumping out the water to get to milk (we alternate here to make milk last longer)

Or wanting a snack of chips or other junk (didn't ask for it till I brought it out!)

Or a neice saying she never wants to get pregnant so she wont get fat (I can't keep all the blame but boy did I used to complain about how fat I was when pregnant with DS)

After having kids I eat less junk drink more water and am on the road to more patience. :). (but boy is it too slow!)

On the good side he does teach DD (he taught her colors and counting not me!)
and DD tells him 'don't take my toy' so they follow the good stuff to, I just have to make more good stuff to follow and less bad!
 
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