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so back in Middle school, every time i get confused what my former middle school classmates said and didn't catch on what they were say and i just stand there looking at them or slowly look at them, they would say "She thinks I'm stupid" i don't know why they say that. i don't know where did they get that from. then they never talk to me after that. that just hurts my feelings. what is the meaning behind looking at them all confused and that made them say that I think they're stupid?
 

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so back in Middle school, every time i get confused what my former middle school classmates said and didn't catch on what they were say and i just stand there looking at them or slowly look at them, they would say "She thinks I'm stupid" i don't know why they say that. i don't know where did they get that from. then they never talk to me after that. that just hurts my feelings. what is the meaning behind looking at them all confused and that made them say that I think they're stupid?
There isn't any meaning... they were 13 and 14 year old children who had no sense nor wisdom. These are doors you should leave shut because you will never find answers you seek because there are none!
 
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The Middle School years can be so harsh. It seems like everyone is putting others down.

Trouble is, putting others down doesn't lift anyone up!
 
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so back in Middle school, every time i get confused what my former middle school classmates said and didn't catch on what they were say and i just stand there looking at them or slowly look at them, they would say "She thinks I'm stupid" i don't know why they say that. i don't know where did they get that from. then they never talk to me after that. that just hurts my feelings. what is the meaning behind looking at them all confused and that made them say that I think they're stupid?

:heart: Kids, especially that age can be downright mean, Lanae. There's no rhyme or reason to it.

Praying that you can talk about this pain to a skilled counselor/therapist. Rejection is profoundly heart and soul wounding, especially accompanied by ridicule and meanness. (((hug)))
 
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There isn't any meaning... they were 13 and 14 year old children who had no sense nor wisdom. These are doors you should leave shut because you will never find answers you seek because there are none!

The Middle School years can be so harsh. It seems like everyone is putting others down.

Trouble is, putting others down doesn't lift anyone up!

:heart: Kids, especially that age can be downright mean, Lanae. There's no rhyme or reason to it.

Praying that you can talk about this pain to a skilled counselor/therapist. Rejection is profoundly heart and soul wounding, especially accompanied by ridicule and meanness. (((hug)))

thank you guys. im going to see my social psychologist later this month. they used to lie to be alot, and give me wrong phone numbers all because I used to tickle them all them time
 
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thank you guys. im going to see my social psychologist later this month. they used to lie to be alot, and give me wrong phone numbers all because I used to tickle them all them time

:heart: Tell your counselor about this so the pain can be addressed, Lanae.

And NO tickling Lanae. Ask your counselor why that's not a good idea. (((hug)))
 
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