Hi, TheUndecided. Your questions are not new, and I still find them interesting. You're not being confrontational. Most Christians have had to fight to get answers to the same questions. Whole books have been written to address the kinds of questions you asked, so I tried to keep my post short, but I failed, heh. Even so, I'd be happy to try to answer follow-up questions.
why should a person have to believe in order to be accepted by God . Id happily accept god's existence if he revealed himself to me. If i have an obligation to God during my life he certainly has that obligation to me. Why should i blindly take the word of people telling me of his existence when we know people can be very wrong and very flawed.
As far as I'm concerned, you shouldn't take anybody's word blindly. God certainly doesn't expect you to check your brain at his door. However, for such an important matter as whether God is real and Jesus is his son (and all that he said is true), and the consequences of the choices before you, it is sufficiently serious that looking more deeply into it is worthwhile.
There's lots of ways to do this. Look at some different kinds of evidence to see how believable they are to you. One approach is to look into the kind of evidence that
this web page shows. Another way is to look at the lives of the people who are making claims. Are they demonstrating what they preach with their own lives? Even if under pressure to do otherwise? For anyone who says one thing but does another, I would say that he doesn't
genuinely believe what he is saying. Genuine belief of anything produces actions consistent with that belief. Do you believe a meteor is going to crash through the roof today and strike you? Presumably not, but imagine how you would respond if you genuinely believed it was. You would react quite differently than just believing that it
might. Do the people that are telling you truths about Jesus behave as if those truths
might be true or as if those truths
are true. Unfortunately, Christians are human, too, and you can't just look at one Christian for a reliable answer.
If you find such a person, then get to know them enough that you can decide for yourself if they are the type of person that makes up stories and tells them to people as if they were true. The other possibility is that they perceive things happening that are not actually happening (medically speaking, a psychosis). You don't have to get to know someone very long to spot instances of this.
If you believe they don't have psychotic episodes and don't make up stories, then why do they believe in God? You can ask them. There are some common answers, but everyone's experiences are unique to them.
I was blessed that the first church I attended provided people with the opportunity to share about what God had done for them in the last week to a good chunk of the rest of the congregation. Occasionally I heard "unbelievable" stories about God helping people and answering their prayers. Some of them were clearly not making up stories, and some of the situations were such that it was impossible for it to happen without God (e.g., multiple non-trivial tumors disappearing over night after being prayed for by Christians). Following up on them (often much) later confirmed this to be the case. Some people that experience things like this get copies of the before and after X-rays so they can show people. I've asked myself for what reason would such people go to great lengths just to show them to other people who already believe in Jesus? (This is only an example; things like this have happened to me, but I don't think I've experienced this particular example firsthand.)
What about people who have lived moral lives and never committed a crime how can they be considered a sinner for not believing. Wouldn't god reveal himself to everyone in the end regardless of whether they believed or not and judge them on the lives they lived, my belief in God should be unimportant to him. What should be important to him is what sort of person i was during my lifetime.
This is the consequence of thousands of years of people pushing God out of their lives. God respects people's right to choose more than anything it seems (because he made us like himself). God doesn't go where people don't want him. What you, your friends, family, ancestors, and community have
done has a far bigger impact God's presence that what you think you want. If you genuinely wanted God to show himself to you, your actions would be consistent with this.
Also how am i meant to believe in God when even the people ordained or who believe tell me his word is so unimportant that we can decide what parts we want to believe and dismiss or change anything we don't like ? The bible as i can see evolves to conform to the society of that time and is constantly being revised. Regardless of whether or not it was originally the word of god which could very well be true , it was translated,written and is constantly revised by fallible people , after enough revision it's not even going to resemble the original teachings. It conforms to the moral compass of the day
Stop listening to those people. The Bible, as it was originally written down (in Greek, Hebrew, and Aramaic) is 99+% the same as what we have today in those languages. The earliest sizable chunks of the Old Testament are more than 2700 years old. The oldest fragment of the New Testament is from about 50 years after the last apostle died.
However, translating the ancient languages into English is no small task. (Consider how important the translators believe it is to make it accurate. Usually
many translators are involved in making a Bible translation.) However, each effort to translate it into English has been done with different goals in mind. The New American Standard Bible (NASB) is the closest to the original language, but is more difficult to understand. It requires knowing more about the culture of those times to be able to interpret what the words mean. [A lot of people like the King James Version (KJV), although I would recommend the New King James Version (NKJV).]
For those that don't want to study so much about the cultures (at least at first), there are translations that try to maintain the meaning of the original but use easier to understand grammar and words. The New International Version (I recommend the 1984 version) is a happy medium, however there are even easier to understand translations, but the cost of making them easier to understand is that they are less exactly like the original language. I'd recommend the New Living Translation (NLT) to people that wanted to go that route. There's nothing at all wrong with the easier-to-understand translations, just so you know that is what you're reading.
The only real way to know which is best for a person is to read the same passage in each translation being considered. Having Bible Study notes added by the publisher can also be good help, and lessens the severity of not knowing the culture of those times.